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Continued from here https://forums.psychcentral.com/depr...rtle-love.html
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Hi to little turtle and all on the bus
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This is my third attempt at posting here
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This bus is very quiet...
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Hello Fuzzy and anyone else who gets on the bus.
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Thanks for this SAFE thread little turtle
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Hi little turtle, how do I deal with people who Declare that I have no value?
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we need to get everyone on the bus to talk about this...rohag is reasonable....he may have an idea..fuzzy how are you handling it... |
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I have been very depressed and apathetic...staying in bed most of the day....so I have been quiet. I wish somebody could help me feel a little better, but I know it's not possible....sigh
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I too have a problem with people who persist in triggering behaviour after I have asked them to stop. I either try to ignore them or end up arguing with them...but I end up feeling hurt when I resort to arguing....don't know how to deal with them effectively.
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![]() The advice I have been given, in the past, is too be assertive. It is just not the easy when my brain is so much slower than the people who throw abuse at you. Would be great if we could all try and put some sentences together, see if any of them will work. I will try one to start..... I find it helpful when people speak to me in a kinder and loving way. |
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this bus has now started on a journey..
I wish we could call it the fuzzy bus.. |
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triggering...
I have been married 63 years...almost 64.... my marriage causes me the most stress... I am very sensitive to anything my wife is saying... i see my wife as being very critical .... she is frequently making statements about me... and mostly i perceive these as critical... just this last year i have been speaking up... i feel much better about myself... |
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I’m glad speaking up has helped you feel better. Most of the abusers in my life simply ignore me and continue with the abusive behaviour if I speak up ![]() I think that’s the mark of an abuser. They continue despite a clear request to stop. ![]() ![]() __________________ ![]() |
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grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr
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#19
I think it’s a stupid lie that I’ve “failed” as a friend. It’s exactly what the PUS want me to think, that I’m “good for nothing”
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I have some off the bus talk---------5 days ago I lowered my celexa from 5mg to 2.5mg..at the same time I started taking magnesium every day...so far I am feeling better...there will probably come a time when I get real scared....but I am going to try
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