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Old Oct 03, 2018, 10:40 AM
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This bus is for if we’re feeling sad, hurt, angry or any of that other stuff.. it’s ok if there is only me and maybe one or two others here.
It’s a place to dump some of our losses and hurts without being judged.

And to give support to the person who is feeling sad, hurt, angry, scared, depressed or any of that stuff..

It still hurts me to this day having never had siblings.. well I did have a couple of half siblings for a few years who were then removed from my life
(There is no chance that they will ever return, and I never did or said anything mean )
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Old Oct 03, 2018, 11:17 AM
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Thanks for driving this bus, (((Fuzzy)))
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Old Oct 03, 2018, 11:20 AM
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Yeah it hurts when you don't have family but then i guess it could hurt if you do so...it is what it is. All i have left is a brother and we go out together now and again. we could have fallen out but i'm glad we didn't.
Is there no way you could get in touch with your family. Maybe just a Christmas card saying ' wondering how you are'.
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Old Oct 03, 2018, 11:23 AM
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I can’t get in touch with them. I tried the Christmas card thing. No reply. I think I sent a few Christmas cards.. no reply.

I do think having no blood family is amongst the suckiest things in this ****ed up world

I could perhaps get in touch with the step maternal unit. The last time we “spoke” she completely denied and invalidated a serious medical issue I very briefly mentioned
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Old Oct 03, 2018, 11:32 AM
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it hurts when you don't have family but then i guess it could hurt if you do
Too true!

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Old Oct 03, 2018, 11:40 AM
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it’s a funny, but not so funny thing. When I, very rarely, speak of any of this stuff, few if any seem to get it. I know it must, somehow...
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Old Oct 03, 2018, 11:43 AM
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One therapist did sort of get it. She described the “family” as a set of shops... they just slam the old fashioned shop front down. Thud. And I’m the person who is wounded.

Maybe I “shouldn’t” have shared this. I don’t like comparing pain, it’s a waste of time and not helpful. I just hated being an only cub with nobody to even somewhat understand or care
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Old Oct 03, 2018, 12:00 PM
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When the paternal unit told me the “news”...

It was as if what good there had been was deleted

I didn’t have the skills to express how I felt then .... maybe I still don’t....

I do delete my posts a lot. And I have a lot of intrusive thoughts of deleting me

Sometimes it feels like the “logical” thing to do
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Old Oct 03, 2018, 12:05 PM
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Sorry about “whining” I “just” finding sharing any of this stuff hard.

I appreciate the support guys
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Old Oct 03, 2018, 12:13 PM
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Old Oct 03, 2018, 02:06 PM
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Fuzzy, I am very sorry you don't have the family you wish you had.

You don't deserve to be deleted and you are not disposable.

You are very special and you are loved here!
What would we do without you? Nobody could ever take your place!

Thinking of you!
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Old Oct 03, 2018, 05:37 PM
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I tried the Christmas card thing...

The last time we “spoke”...
Opinion: Based not only on this but on what you've posted here and there over time, I believe you have done all you could and can reasonably do regarding your "unusual" family of origin.
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Old Oct 03, 2018, 05:50 PM
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Fuzzy, I am very sorry you don't have the family you wish you had.

You don't deserve to be deleted and you are not disposable.

You are very special and you are loved here!
What would we do without you? Nobody could ever take your place!

Thinking of you!
Lots of gentle bear hugs!

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Thanks so much ((((((((( Wild Coyote ))))))))

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Old Oct 03, 2018, 08:38 PM
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Being sensitive is a good thing. I’m very sensitive..
Being insensitive is a problem..

One of many things the PUS totally miss

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