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Old Oct 26, 2018, 04:01 PM
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I'm tired and weak and can't put up with this behavior from the bullies..I don't mean to be mean ,but why don't they bully someone else?..Why am I singled out? I'm tired of having a life full of bullying every place I go...I hope this post isn't deleted.
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Old Oct 26, 2018, 04:21 PM
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You certainly are not alone here in being tired of the fight.

I would caution you against labelling self as weak, since this is what bullies enjoy doing, labelling others.

As has been discussed, bullies are not superior, and usually have very little insight into themselves.

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Old Oct 27, 2018, 01:37 AM
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Hey themagicman,

Hang in there young fella, please.

Have you spoken with your parents and expressed how tired and depressed this is making you? Or to your teachers and school's principal? If it was me at your age now, I'd even go to the police, because it's really effecting your life. And this is an important time in your life. Talk to someone in authority about it please, and if it just gets too much, stop attending school, for the sake of your mental health. What about your father, is he helping you?

Stay strong within yourself themagicman, you'll be okay, and keep reaching out, please. Let us know how you're getting on.
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Old Oct 27, 2018, 09:55 AM
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Old Oct 27, 2018, 10:23 AM
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yeah, some people have to change schools, someone did that before
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.it was smart to change schools even go to the police.tell parents"change my school, help me go to police i will not take this, help me.--or i stop going to school"(which you might h."

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Old Oct 27, 2018, 01:02 PM
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How are you getting on today?
I hope you can find someone trustworthy (irl) to speak to. And we are here to listen
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Old Oct 27, 2018, 01:05 PM
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Sadly, bullies sense what they percieve as "weakness", any vunrability (sp) they can find they'll use against others
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Old Oct 27, 2018, 01:09 PM
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Sadly, bullies sense what they percieve as "weakness", any vunrability (sp) they can find they'll use against others
And... I don’t think bullies are “strong” at all. Some eventually grow out of the bullying behaviour, not that that is much consolation while being bullied. This behaviour should be stopped. I hope you (op) can get some help with this. If you give more info. Maybe we could give more advice. Again, stay strong,
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Old Oct 27, 2018, 01:10 PM
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Please talk to someone. If you are a student talk to a teacher. If it's at work talk to human resources. Or whoever is appropriate for the situation.
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Old Oct 27, 2018, 01:23 PM
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I'm sorry you're being bullied. You don't deserve it at all... and you're NOT weak. Hang in there.
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Old Oct 27, 2018, 04:20 PM
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Please post an update if you check in, people here are concerned about you.

As others have said many times, we do make friends here and grow to care about the others here.

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Old Oct 27, 2018, 04:25 PM
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Hi guys,
Thanks so much for caring and thinking of me...I'm trying to hang in there.I love you guys..Thanks again.
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Old Oct 27, 2018, 04:29 PM
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Thanks so much for caring and thinking of me...I'm trying to hang in there.I love you guys..Thanks again.
Re bullies ... gggggggrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

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Old Oct 28, 2018, 12:48 PM
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This makes me so sad, I really hope you're finding some strength. I was bullied at school many years ago and it really affected me for many years. Back then there as no Internet or social media so I could escape, but it seems these days kids are just particularly unkind or nasty to each other.

As hard as it is, just know it won't last forever, these people are very insecure and unhappy in their own lives so they have to project that on someone else. Youre an amazing person and so much better than these other people. Just remember that Trigger...I don't want to live anymoreTrigger...I don't want to live anymore
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