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Old Nov 26, 2018, 05:40 PM
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Hi there,
Everything is going back to the way it was..The bullying has increased..My self esteem has hit rock bottom, I thought that I was strong enough to endure the bullying but I was wrong.
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Old Nov 26, 2018, 06:17 PM
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Nobody should have to endure bullying. I’m sorry these people are so cruel. Is there anyone you can speak to about this if it’s at school, work etc...Bullies often are sneaky and dishonest and just about every nasty attribute.. and they feel so inferior and crushingly insecure that they have to keep on hurting others. How sad.
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Old Nov 26, 2018, 07:12 PM
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I hope that in some way you can find the strength to endure... (& perhaps even triumph?)
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Old Nov 26, 2018, 07:34 PM
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I’m sorry a lot. I hate bullying. I can guess how awful it can be for any person.
Are you at work or at school?
Do you feel as you could share with us what exactly is happening to you? Maybe, we could give you some insight on how to proceed.
You are not alone, ok?
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Old Nov 27, 2018, 03:25 PM
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Bully = someone who is broken and cannot admit their pain!

Victim or really I mean survivor of bully = someone who is strong but has moments where bully breaks them on account of all those bullies who went before!
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Old Nov 27, 2018, 03:49 PM
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((((themagicman)))) I'm sorry you are being bullied. No one should be bullied. I wish we lived in a world where that didn't happen! ((((hugs for you))))
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Old Nov 27, 2018, 04:56 PM
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(((((themagicman))))) you don't deserve to be bullied, bullies are big lumps of turds with voices like fart noises
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Old Nov 28, 2018, 02:59 AM
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Oh my goodness, I'm so sorry these a-holes are still harrassing you, themagicman. You're a good guy, I can tell.

Hang in there, stay strong in your heart, stay strong in your mind, and inform any authority or person who you believe might be able to check these bullies, because obviously your main goals of education, being a student, is the main priority.

Try this too: the next time these bullies start to intimidate you, yell at them to 'F-off!' because sometimes when these types of people encounter resistance of any sort, they 're-evaluate' their ways towards you and even back away, okay magicman? And I'm saying this from my own experiences of dealing with a-holes. It's not the P.C way of course, but who cares? If it can benefit you and your future, then in this respect, it's okay.

Stay strong in you heart my friend.
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Old Nov 29, 2018, 02:52 AM
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They are more, they feel stronger bc they are protected by the group itself, they have been abusing their victim for quite a while so they are aware of the abused person’s struggles to get rid of the abusers’ web.
While I think you are right and sometimes, direct confrontation may produce a good outcome, sometimes, it might be more suitable a silent strategy.
So, we need to know what possibilities he counts on his support with.
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Old Nov 29, 2018, 03:00 AM
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Think a thing. No matter how many they can be. Your side will be always more numerous. Many people will be on your side, bc bullying, abusing is one of the most awful thing you can do against a person. All we need to know is whether these people by your side have the resources and the willing to give a step forward if they know about your case.
Don’t feel bad for having to look for support bc anyone in your circumstances would feel as you.
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Old Nov 29, 2018, 04:48 AM
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((((themagicman)))) I'm so sorry you're struggling. And I'm sorry the bullying is increasing. Please, don't give up. You're much, much stronger than them. I'm sorry you have to endure all of this, nobody deserves this, especially you. Keep fighting, and I'm sure you'll come out on top. You don't even need to consider them... even ignoring them can work in some cases. Remember that being strong means that you can get up after you've fallen down... I'm sure you can make it! Don't give up! I'm sorry you have to endure all of this abuse
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Old Nov 29, 2018, 06:51 PM
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Hi there,

You guys are the best..Thanks so much for all your support..Love to all..
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