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Crypts_Of_The_Mind · Jan 14, 2019 at 01:26 AM

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Originally Posted by Fuzzybear

Hi wonderful people,
I can’t stand it when some smart azz (nobody here) says something mean, attempting to shut me down. Who the **** are they to sit in their ivory tower and spew judgments over me?
I can’t **** with the endless garbage of other people’s cruelty.

Love to all here

Been there - many, many times. There now. All I can say is to try to block them out .. distract yourself, ignore them, etc. I know it's weak bc even I can't do it most times .. but if you have something to distract and then some relaxation exercise or coping technique, it works .. otherwise - distraction just feels hollow to me. Sorry. *hugs*

Crypts_Of_The_Mind · Jan 14, 2019 at 01:27 AM

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Originally Posted by Fuzzybear

Thank you dear friend

I want to growl and bite all the labelling bullies out there irl

“Totally neurotic” - wtf does that even mean?

“Not capable of change”

Huh?

Fortunately for them, nobody actually said that to me, but one incompetent labelling GP implied it. HOW DARE HE.

And if “the whole world hates me” because of this post

Then that is about sick world out there

And not about me.

(Not about anyone on pc)

I agree with you 100% here.

Crypts_Of_The_Mind · Jan 14, 2019 at 01:33 AM

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Originally Posted by Fuzzybear

Why do we have to beg for help irl and grovel. It disgusts me. Who are they to judge us, idiots that they are

I refuse to beg anymore. If they call me crazy, I look at them and say "yep, I got the papers to prove it - what's your excuse?!" Or "there is no normal - so, everyone is crazy, it's the ones that won't admit it that are the worst among us". Then if they come at me with "you need help", I say "yeah, well no one seems to understand the meaning of that word, when you find someone who does, look me up". Then I walk on. Got tired of smart jerks long ago.

But this person I am dealing with now happens to be a neighbor that knocks on my door - not so easy to get rid of her.

Crypts_Of_The_Mind · Jan 14, 2019 at 01:34 AM

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Originally Posted by Fuzzybear

Unfortunately we both know how many mh providers in this country do not care. They are trained to cut us off

And as you said in another post, they blame us for being unable to help us,

This is why I learned to take the info I needed from them, then I used it .. did research on my own, and helped myself.

Thirty shades · Jan 14, 2019 at 06:04 AM

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Originally Posted by Crypts_Of_The_Mind

This is why I learned to take the info I needed from them, then I used it .. did research on my own, and helped myself.

I have found this approach, to be the most helpful.

Researching online and connecting with others who have similar health worries can help us ease our symptoms but there is no cure. I have come to accept that it is more about managing my living nightmare.

For me there are good days and bad days, getting by using all I have learnt. It is the ugly days that still get me....

I can accept they don't have the knowledge or training to help us but I can't fathom for the life of me, why they need to blame us for our lot. Surely if you have any training in mental health, you would know that a kind and caring approach is required.

Crypts_Of_The_Mind · Jan 14, 2019 at 09:57 AM

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Originally Posted by Thirty shades

I have found this approach, to be the most helpful.

Researching online and connecting with others who have similar health worries can help us ease our symptoms but there is no cure. I have come to accept that it is more about managing my living nightmare.

For me there are good days and bad days, getting by using all I have learnt. It is the ugly days that still get me....

I can accept they don't have the knowledge or training to help us but I can't fathom for the life of me, why they need to blame us for our lot. Surely if you have any training in mental health, you would know that a kind and caring approach is required.

Exactly! My bad days are infrequent now and I try to keep the natural things I have found to help around, but sometimes they are not on hand and I don't have money to get them so I start spiraling til I either get the money or the episode relaxes but it is nowhere near what it used to be. I find we help ourselves best. Even the docs always told me "I can tell you what to do, but you have to do the work." So finally I had had enough .. and took matters into my own hands. ❤

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