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Dec 05, 2007, 08:44 PM
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Why have i always felt like the little girl in the back of the class raising her hand as high as it will go, hoping to get called on to answer a question only to be ignored? I feel like whenever I'm in a group of people I am ignored, someone talks over me or someone else brings up a subject that is just more "important". I am silent even when I'm speaking. I am unheard.
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Dec 05, 2007, 08:48 PM
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i have been wondering about you... its always cool to just pipe up and say hey... over here...
good to see you haunted... |
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Dec 05, 2007, 09:00 PM
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((((((((haunted))))))))
I hear you...that is one of my triggers and my mother is ALWAYS doing it.....when I see her that is..... We hear you haunted.... Jinny xxxx |
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Dec 05, 2007, 09:55 PM
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Your signature, "Excuse me, but I'm looking for the sun," reminds me of "Stand" by R.E.M. :-)
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Dec 06, 2007, 12:17 AM
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haunted. You're not invisible. I see you, and I'm glad.
Cyran0
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My blog: http://cyran0.psychcentral.net/ Dx: Generalized Anxiety Disorder, Major Depressive Disorder, PTSD (childhood physical/sexual abuse), history of drug abuse. Meds: Zoloft, Lorazapam, Coffee, Cigarettes "I may climb perhaps to no great heights, but I will climb alone." -Cyrano de Bergerac |
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Dec 06, 2007, 09:43 PM
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Thanks everbody I needed that........
I have always had a hard time speaking up for myself or stating my true feelings and yesterday it got the best of me... a work issue that I tried to solve with a very simple solution that was bypassed by somebody with a big mouth. Well guess what? His way did not work so when I went in today I literally told him that if he would just shut up and let me speak I could fix it. He looked a bit shocked. Damn, it felt good.  And my solution did work. Jinny, my mother always told me that i sould be quiet and not draw attention to myself. I'm sure that's a big part of the reason I struggle with feeling invisible. Sometimes I really hate her for not showing me how to shine. To this day I fear speaking up for myself. It's like I hear that line from Stephen King's Carrie..."They're all going to laugh at you" over and over. Cy- thanks for seeing me. It means so much. Nowhere I've been wondering about me too. And i am here and I'm glad. Perna, I haven't heard that song in a long while. Went to see R.E.M. years ago, brought back good memories. Take care everyone. Peace.
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