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Default Sep 23, 2019 at 05:21 AM
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dear desiree.... i don't know what to say...i am just starting with mindfulness....
i am reading about it by[jon kabat-zinn].....but it is not easy reading..
.but there is some hope for us.....
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Default Sep 23, 2019 at 08:49 AM
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oprah interviewed dr dean ornish and his wife ann on super soul sunday...
that was yesterday the 22nd....it was interesting and helpful....
it was about their new book UNDOIT......LIFESTYLE MEDICINE...
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I don't understand people who want to take others down

people (irl) who use YOU statements

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Default Sep 24, 2019 at 01:24 PM
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This bus feels so quiet now even the regulars, especially me, feel muzzled
maybe this is a 'good' thing... the bear being muzzled
I know some (irl) would enjoy this

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It was insanity
Paying hundreds of pounds to a private therapist..
only to be told i'm too ........
so 'should' be muzzled

i'd already heard that message many times
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It was a long time ago when I first "asked for help". I remember it was said or strongly implied that seeking help would not hurt me, and the help offered would most probably resolve whatever afflicted me.

I want to think seeking help hurts few and greatly helps many. My experience, however, has been a much less severe form of Fuzzybear's.


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It was a long time ago when I first "asked for help". I remember it was said or strongly implied that seeking help would not hurt me, and the help offered would most probably resolve whatever afflicted me.

I want to think seeking help hurts few and greatly helps many. My experience, however, has been a much less severe form of Fuzzybear's.

I want to think the same...

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Default Sep 24, 2019 at 05:07 PM
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I have also faced being told many times that I was born defective and that I have not recovered from my defectiveness, which is all my own fault for not trying hard enough.

I really must be

My snake has ideas to solve the problem but I resist them It is very tiring

Unfortunately my snake bites my goat who cries out the thoughts of my snake and this causes others to reject me further. Emoting is bad news, so I must buy a stronger muzzle for my goat.

I try to live a quiet life, it is not working out well due to being forced to come into contact with people IRL.
I wish I could stay in my hole at the back of the cave and

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dear desiree.... i don't know what to say...i am just starting with mindfulness....
i am reading about it by[jon kabat-zinn].....but it is not easy reading..
.but there is some hope for us.....
Thanks little turtle.
There's a Mindfulness for Beginners book by Jon Kabat Zinn. Let's see if I can read that... maybe I can try 15minutes at a time?
I have ordered the book from Amazon India.
 
 
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Thanks little turtle.
There's a Mindfulness for Beginners book by Jon Kabat Zinn. Let's see if I can read that... maybe I can try 15minutes at a time?
I have ordered the book from Amazon India.
desiree please let me know what that book is like....
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desiree please let me know what that book is like....
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Love and respect to all who are true and as is

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shudder 'the hospital'

this road iis bumpy and its very tiring

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Being true and as is..
makes it impossible to 'please' everyone..
not that I would want to
having been forced into submission and erasure of self in cubhood

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I agree @Fuzzybear, it really is impossible to please everyone. Even just one would be nice for me. It's a tough world to be in, but I wish you peace. And to everyone on the as is bus!
 
 
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