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Wisest Elder Ever
Member Since Nov 2002
Location: Cave.
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I have a good friend I’ve known for many years..
She often has spoken of a feeling of being “never understood” And “never belonging” It’s a hard lonely feeling. I love learning I love many beautiful things and people My brain is active My pain won’t stop Where is my off switch to stop my pain ![]() __________________ ![]() |
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Legendary
Member Since Feb 2009
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![]() ![]() Based on my reading of your posts, dear Fuzzybear, your sense of "not belonging" is far more pervasive and agonising than mine. ![]() ((((((( Fuzzybear ))))))) __________________ My dog ![]() |
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Grand Magnate
Member Since Jul 2018
Location: UK
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#3
I have often felt like I do not belong.....
People sense something.... I am not sure what... The feeling is a vicious circle... Exclusion leads to more pain... The world would be a better place if everyone could be accepted AS IS... ![]() |
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Magnate
Member Since Jun 2014
Location: US
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#4
I feel like this too... I can't seem to find my place, my people.
I don't know the answer, FuzzyBear, regarding switching off the pain... I do know about distraction from the pain. That helps a little. Have you ever seen the show "Crazy Ex-Girlfriend"? I was watching the beginning of the final season last night, and they played this song ("No one else is singing my song... No one knows the rhythm... enough to sing along...") I think it's supposed to be somewhat ironic (they end up having 11-12 people all singing it together, showing that we're not as alone with the feeling as we think we are). |
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Legendary
Member Since Jun 2016
Location: Italy
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#5
I'm so sorry you're hurting so much, Fuzzybear!
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