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May 06, 2019 at 12:52 PM
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I haven’t always “controlled” her as I “should”
 Was I even “present” when she screwed up?   Does she even “deserve” love and acceptance? 
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May 06, 2019 at 01:29 PM
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I was far too “controlled” when I was a little cub
I even “controlled” myself not to cry at age 7 or even less... to emotional and physical injuries To cry would be “shameful” .. apparently
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May 06, 2019 at 03:59 PM
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Yes your inner cub deserves love and acceptance.
 She is in pain and needs your love. Allow her to cry, if she wishes I know mine is too numb and programmed not to cry Rejecting, silencing and ignoring inner cubs is very painful. Bonding with them patiently with loving kindness offers some relief Much love to all inner cubs 
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May 06, 2019 at 04:15 PM
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((((((( inner cubs )))))))
 
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May 06, 2019 at 04:22 PM
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May 06, 2019 at 04:25 PM
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