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Wisest Elder Ever
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Teachers at school often commented how I wasn't 'confident' and how 'shy' and 'withdrawn' I was
![]() I remember one comment in particular 'I hope fuzzy bear becomes more confident in the 6th form... and commented on my good exam results ![]() unfortunately passing exams didn't stop the abuse or remove my self doubt and anxiety. and I still have that anxiety... which is one of the hardest things in the world to stop... how can I stop my anxiety without deleting myself from this world (meds not an option) ![]() (rhetorical question ![]() ugh. I had another thought but am 'moving on' from it ![]() (sorry so many posts ![]() __________________ ![]() |
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Teachers
![]() They are considered professionals ![]() Mine also wrote in my report "TS is a quiet shy pupil." ![]() TS was too scared to find her voice.... ![]() I wonder if we really have true anxiety? ![]() Yes we experience it that way... ![]() But maybe our unconscious brain cons the amygdala to trigger the effects to warn us of the things that have been a problem to us when we were cubs? ![]() Our emotions are strong... ![]() It weakens us ![]() ![]() I am pleased that thought has been cancelled... ![]() Moving forward (temporarily) your inner cub may need to spend some quality time with you dearest Fuzzybear? Sending compassion and empathy to you and your snake. ![]() |
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Wisest Elder Ever
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Hmmm...? Is it possible your teachers - or a few of them - were puzzled how such a good student could be so "unconfident"?
I wonder if those teachers allowed themselves to consider your home environment might be responsible for the paradox? ![]() ((((((( Fuzzybear ))))))) __________________ My dog ![]() |
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Wisest Elder Ever
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