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Deilla · Feb 04, 2021 at 12:28 AM

My place looks so much better now. I have done a lot of hard work. I am motivated to try to complete my dining room this weekend. Tomorrow, I think I will take the day off. I am very tired.

Best wishes to all!

Feb 04, 2021 at 09:19 AM

I'm sick today, so I will not try to fulfil any goals, neither will I visit the Gym.

I am trying to relax, eat now and then, and to look into some programs with regard to my preferred religion.

I send good wishes your way!

Deilla · Feb 04, 2021 at 03:00 PM

I have more energy today. I guess I just needed some rest. A company came out and removed my junk/donation pile. I just need to vacuum. Maybe this weekend. Hope all of you are well! I'm relaxing for the remainder of the day.

Sunflower123 · Feb 04, 2021 at 06:17 PM

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Originally Posted by Jennifer 1967

I forgot about my therapy session. I also need to make some calls for my brother and run by mom’s doctor to pick something up and by the pharmacy for her medicine. Finally, I need to resolve the battery in my car being dead. I’ll need to call AAA. I plan to focus on one thing at a time and approach things with an attitude of calm, poise and peace. Today’s bible study on peace is a very timely message. Fortunately it’s a beautiful day and I’ll enjoy some sunshine.

I hope everyone is having a good day. Best wishes.

I was able to get everything done yesterday but for my car battery by taking it one step at a time. Today I took the trash and recycling out, made calls for both my brother and mom, completed laundry for all three of us, called the plumber for a busted pipe, made dinner and made a big dent in my bedroom. I’m pleased. I am also tired and plan to spend the rest of the evening reading a thriller. I hope to simplify my life soon; however, when you are caring for two people in poor health you do what you have to do.

Tomorrow, I will pick up the house which is in pretty good shape, complete inner work and listen to a summit I am participating in. I will also address my car battery.

I wish everyone a good day tomorrow.

Deilla · Feb 05, 2021 at 04:14 AM

I took care of some personal business, returned a package, did some cooking and unloaded the dishwasher. I plan to do the following today:

1. Wash dishes.
2. Clean the litter box.
3. Read and relax.

Hope you all have a good day!

Feb 05, 2021 at 04:39 AM

The Rheumatism is better today. I will stay inside today (14F outside). I will take it easy as well. I am going to eat, rest and then empty the dishwasher, fill it again and do what my energy allows.

Best hopes for all! Take care!

Sunflower123 · Feb 06, 2021 at 04:20 AM

I’m caught up on two of the three things that were on my list: cleaning the house and my errands. The house sparkles and I have no more errands for now. What a good feeling. Now I need to catch up on my inner work which I will start working on today.

I hope everyone has a wonderful weekend.

Feb 06, 2021 at 08:56 AM

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Originally Posted by GoGo2

The Rheumatism is better today. I will stay inside today (14F outside). I will take it easy as well. I am going to eat, rest and then empty the dishwasher, fill it again and do what my energy allows.

Best hopes for all! Take care!

I put my energy elsewhere and now I feel like a fool, lost, don't know where to start at what's real important ...

I think I will start with a prayer and then jump into the work, but still do it one small step at the time.

To all: Take care!

Sunflower123 · Feb 06, 2021 at 04:09 PM

I’ve been under the weather today so none of my plans came to fruition. I can’t imagine where I picked something up because I’m always so careful.

Tomorrow I drive mom to get her COVID vaccine. We’ll pick up a meal and watch the Super Bowl together.

I hope everyone has a peaceful Sunday.

Deilla · Feb 06, 2021 at 04:12 PM

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Originally Posted by Jennifer 1967

I’ve been under the weather today so none of my plans came to fruition. I can’t imagine where I picked something up because I’m always so careful.

Tomorrow I drive mom to get her COVID vaccine. We’ll pick up a meal and watch the Super Bowl together.

I hope everyone has a peaceful Sunday.

I hope you feel better soon. Try to get plenty of rest.

Deilla · Feb 06, 2021 at 04:14 PM

I washed my dishes, cleaned the litter box and did some reading. For the remainder of the day, I want to cook a little. And I want to do some more reading.

Hope everyone is having a pleasant weekend. Hugs to all!

Deilla · Feb 07, 2021 at 04:26 PM

I washed my dishes again and I did some cooking. I also opened packages and cleaned my kitchen. For the remainder of the day, I will play games and relax. Hope all of you are well.

Feb 08, 2021 at 05:14 AM

It is still a cold weather. There is a lock down and now I cannot even use the Gym. I had decided to solve the issue of getting enough physical exercise in these cold winter days by going to the Gym. Well, that is impossible now.

Today I will have a quick meal first, then visit the grocery shop for blueberries. Blueberries are part of my healthy diet. After that I will work in the home meter by meter, starting in the kitchen. I need to put the dishwasher to run even if the prices for energy for the time being almost rise to the sky.

I am so glad that it is soon spring!

To all: Be well and take care!

Sunflower123 · Feb 08, 2021 at 11:19 AM

I’m still not quite caught up on my inner work and I have a lot of computer work to do. I will also address my car battery today as I have put that off. Mainly, I will take a deep breath and work on enjoying this glorious day as I am stressed out.

I hope everyone has a good day. Best wishes.

Deilla · Feb 08, 2021 at 11:27 AM

I am stressed out this morning. The only thing I've accomplished so far is self-care, pet care and some cooking. I've been very tired today even though I went to bed early. Today, I hope to do the following:

1. Clean the litter box.
2. Open packages.
3. Take a shower.

Wishing everyone the best!

Deilla · Feb 09, 2021 at 12:48 AM

I was able to clean the litter boxes and open packages. I put things away and then focused on relaxing. I went to bed very early. It's late now and I'm thinking of cooking. Today, I want to do the following:

1. Open more packages.
2. Put stuff away.
3. Organize my bedroom.

I wish everyone the best. I hope you do well with this week's tasks.

Feb 09, 2021 at 05:35 AM

I feel fine!

The weather is the same, so that is how it is. But it will not last for ever. My rheumatism is still there at a low degree.

I did get something done in the house yesterday. Along with those I went to University with, I don't feel that doing work in the house is the most important in the world. We never wanted to be like our mothers that served our fathers as if they were some kind of little gods. It has to be done some way or other and it takes more energy to do it when depressed. But I don't want to submit to it.

I did my "inner work", most of it, in my student time. But I don't think that that is done once and for all. We develop all our life. For the time being I am repeating DBT and feel OK with that.

I'll take a break from the tread.

My office is waiting. I look forward to prepare ...

May you all be well, get things done in your environments in your own tact and be proud of yourselves the way you are. You are good enough!

Sunflower123 · Feb 09, 2021 at 05:57 AM

I was as down as was possible yesterday and I focused on managing that. I will continue focusing on getting back on my feet today.

Warm regards and best wishes to all.

Deilla · Feb 11, 2021 at 11:15 PM

The other day I was able to open the rest of my packages and put stuff away. I also worked on my bedroom. I'm not feeling well emotionally today. So I don't think I will do anything. I hope all of you are well. Happy Friday!

Deilla · Feb 12, 2021 at 09:17 PM

I was able to do 100% of my self-care today. I did pet care as well. Tomorrow I have an appointment and I will clean the litter box. That is all I will do. Basically, I want my weekend off. May all of you have a wonderful Saturday and Sunday!

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Deilla Legendary Wise Elder Member Since Oct 2017 Location: Limsa Lominsa Posts: 29,434 (SuperPoster!) 7 49.2k hugs given	Feb 04, 2021 at 12:28 AM #261 My place looks so much better now. I have done a lot of hard work. I am motivated to try to complete my dining room this weekend. Tomorrow, I think I will take the day off. I am very tired. Best wishes to all! __________________ ‘Live for now,’ ‘This too shall pass,’ ‘Everything is happening for my good.’

Anonymous 42424 Guest Posts: n/a	Feb 04, 2021 at 09:19 AM #262 I'm sick today, so I will not try to fulfil any goals, neither will I visit the Gym. I am trying to relax, eat now and then, and to look into some programs with regard to my preferred religion. I send good wishes your way!

Deilla Legendary Wise Elder Member Since Oct 2017 Location: Limsa Lominsa Posts: 29,434 (SuperPoster!) 7 49.2k hugs given	Feb 04, 2021 at 03:00 PM #263 I have more energy today. I guess I just needed some rest. A company came out and removed my junk/donation pile. I just need to vacuum. Maybe this weekend. Hope all of you are well! I'm relaxing for the remainder of the day. __________________ ‘Live for now,’ ‘This too shall pass,’ ‘Everything is happening for my good.’

Deilla Legendary Wise Elder Member Since Oct 2017 Location: Limsa Lominsa Posts: 29,434 (SuperPoster!) 7 49.2k hugs given	Feb 05, 2021 at 04:14 AM #265 I took care of some personal business, returned a package, did some cooking and unloaded the dishwasher. I plan to do the following today: 1. Wash dishes. 2. Clean the litter box. 3. Read and relax. Hope you all have a good day! __________________ ‘Live for now,’ ‘This too shall pass,’ ‘Everything is happening for my good.’

Anonymous 42424 Guest Posts: n/a	Feb 05, 2021 at 04:39 AM #266 The Rheumatism is better today. I will stay inside today (14F outside). I will take it easy as well. I am going to eat, rest and then empty the dishwasher, fill it again and do what my energy allows. Best hopes for all! Take care!

Sunflower123 Legendary Wise Elder Member Since Jan 2015 Location: USA Posts: 26,557 (SuperPoster!) 9 95k hugs given	Feb 06, 2021 at 04:20 AM #267 I’m caught up on two of the three things that were on my list: cleaning the house and my errands. The house sparkles and I have no more errands for now. What a good feeling. Now I need to catch up on my inner work which I will start working on today. I hope everyone has a wonderful weekend.

Sunflower123 Legendary Wise Elder Member Since Jan 2015 Location: USA Posts: 26,557 (SuperPoster!) 9 95k hugs given	Feb 06, 2021 at 04:09 PM #269 I’ve been under the weather today so none of my plans came to fruition. I can’t imagine where I picked something up because I’m always so careful. Tomorrow I drive mom to get her COVID vaccine. We’ll pick up a meal and watch the Super Bowl together. I hope everyone has a peaceful Sunday.

Deilla Legendary Wise Elder Member Since Oct 2017 Location: Limsa Lominsa Posts: 29,434 (SuperPoster!) 7 49.2k hugs given	Feb 06, 2021 at 04:14 PM #271 I washed my dishes, cleaned the litter box and did some reading. For the remainder of the day, I want to cook a little. And I want to do some more reading. Hope everyone is having a pleasant weekend. Hugs to all! __________________ ‘Live for now,’ ‘This too shall pass,’ ‘Everything is happening for my good.’

Deilla Legendary Wise Elder Member Since Oct 2017 Location: Limsa Lominsa Posts: 29,434 (SuperPoster!) 7 49.2k hugs given	Feb 07, 2021 at 04:26 PM #272 I washed my dishes again and I did some cooking. I also opened packages and cleaned my kitchen. For the remainder of the day, I will play games and relax. Hope all of you are well. __________________ ‘Live for now,’ ‘This too shall pass,’ ‘Everything is happening for my good.’

Sunflower123 Legendary Wise Elder Member Since Jan 2015 Location: USA Posts: 26,557 (SuperPoster!) 9 95k hugs given	Feb 08, 2021 at 11:19 AM #274 I’m still not quite caught up on my inner work and I have a lot of computer work to do. I will also address my car battery today as I have put that off. Mainly, I will take a deep breath and work on enjoying this glorious day as I am stressed out. I hope everyone has a good day. Best wishes.

Sunflower123 Legendary Wise Elder Member Since Jan 2015 Location: USA Posts: 26,557 (SuperPoster!) 9 95k hugs given	Feb 09, 2021 at 05:57 AM #278 I was as down as was possible yesterday and I focused on managing that. I will continue focusing on getting back on my feet today. Warm regards and best wishes to all.

Deilla Legendary Wise Elder Member Since Oct 2017 Location: Limsa Lominsa Posts: 29,434 (SuperPoster!) 7 49.2k hugs given	Feb 11, 2021 at 11:15 PM #279 The other day I was able to open the rest of my packages and put stuff away. I also worked on my bedroom. I'm not feeling well emotionally today. So I don't think I will do anything. I hope all of you are well. Happy Friday! __________________ ‘Live for now,’ ‘This too shall pass,’ ‘Everything is happening for my good.’

Deilla Legendary Wise Elder Member Since Oct 2017 Location: Limsa Lominsa Posts: 29,434 (SuperPoster!) 7 49.2k hugs given	Feb 12, 2021 at 09:17 PM #280 I was able to do 100% of my self-care today. I did pet care as well. Tomorrow I have an appointment and I will clean the litter box. That is all I will do. Basically, I want my weekend off. May all of you have a wonderful Saturday and Sunday! __________________ ‘Live for now,’ ‘This too shall pass,’ ‘Everything is happening for my good.’