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Default Mar 03, 2023 at 12:31 PM
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So sorry, willowtigger!

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Now she's sending emails again, saying I can answer them when I can ...............

from what i can see its the same things she's always wanting reassurance about
 
 
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i told friend who wants to be reassured a lot, weeks in advance, that the 2nd March I cannot be reassuring and helping her cause its a bad anniversary and that is the ONE DAY i need to focus on getting myself through that day, she sent two emails yesterday (which i answered today) and me responding to them today she's taken as a invitation to start sending more emails instead of thinking "yesterday was a bad anniversary, she might need a few more days to get back on a even keel, I won't flood her with emails cause she needs time and space to feel better from the anniversary of Ebony's death"

clearly its not reasonable of me to NEED a few days of not getting multiple emails from her, so I can focus on getting myself back onto a even keel

What do they say about lifejackets? Or is it oxygen masks? Put your own one on before helping the next person with theirs? clearly i'm not allowed to do that ............... sigh ..............
I’m sorry that you’re friend couldn’t respect your boundaries yesterday. Keep putting your boundaries up.

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Is it too much to ask, to be allowed time to stabilise again, without being expected to carry another person? Idk any more
 
 
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Willowtigger a selfish turd clearly .....
 
 
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Dear friend , I am suffering at this moment! I don't know why it has to hurt so much! Bad things have happened, & we don't to be like that. Even though it hurts so much, we must keep striving towards the good. God bless you, dear wonderful willowtigger!

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Dear friend , I am suffering at this moment! I don't know why it has to hurt so much! Bad things have happened, & we don't to be like that. Even though it hurts so much, we must keep striving towards the good. God bless you, dear wonderful willowtigger!
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I been feeling really depressed :hug about my severe depression I have when nothing has triggered my depression :doh but I feel like I am : with myself about this severe depression.

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Dear friend , I am suffering at this moment! I don't know why it has to hurt so much! Bad things have happened, & we don't to be like that. Even though it hurts so much, we must keep striving towards the good. God bless you, dear wonderful willowtigger!
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Have you ever heard the phrase, "as a man thinketh, so is he." The following video explains so well that every thought we have matters. You are worthy. In 2015, I made an attempt because I was listening to a voice of accusation (a family member) and my own negative thoughts which said I did not matter.
Discerning The Source of Thoughts - Keith Malcomson - YouTube
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Have you ever heard the phrase, "as a man thinketh, so is he." The following video explains so well that every thought we have matters. You are worthy. In 2015, I made an attempt because I was listening to a voice of accusation (a family member) and my own negative thoughts which said I did not matter.
Discerning The Source of Thoughts - Keith Malcomson - YouTube
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Depression is a horrible old dragon. It likes to pop it's head out from time to time and make me miserable for a time. Who knows how long it will last this time?

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feeling pressurised by the friend who looks for reassurance, she sent another couple of emails, it would help if i had a complete break from emails for a few days :/
 
 
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I been feeling really awful lately that Iis causing me to feel depressed.

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Feeling sad, but I think I might be a little bit better today.

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Please, all of you, be kind to yourself. No matter what happened before, we have tomorrow.

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"Other people's hate destroyed my love, and I couldn't do nothing about it" Featherstone - Gnomeo and Juliet
 
 
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A lady whom I thought of as a friend recently ghosted me. We were World of Warcraft friends and Discord buddies. She even invited me to her server. But today I found out she unfriended me and kicked me out of her group. I don't know why. We haven't talked in a while. But that's not a good reason. I've just been busy. And she is usually busy when I try to talk to her on Discord. I'm very hurt and very sad.

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i'm managing to distress myself

the thought that Tigger's dying cause she's seeked out a pile of dirty laundry next to the washing machine that needs to go in, i keep thinking it and the thought won't go cause she never sleeps by the washing machine, even when i put clothes there

so i started reading what signs a cat is dying and apparently sleeping is one of the signs

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