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One thing I have learned in life is that in no situation whatsoever am I ever treated in a way I didn’t deserve. The problem is always me. If I don’t get the same respect or attention somebody else got, it has to be due to something I did wrong. Even if someone has been blatantly rude or abusive to me, that person is never being a jerk. I must have set them off somehow. And if I ever try to say any different, then I am “making excuses,” and “blaming everybody else for my problems,” and “not taking responsibility.”
it goes both ways, if someone is set off by something, their reaction is on them, its their responsibility to work on not getting triggered
 
 
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It is astonishing this is the life my father wanted for me.
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Maybe start a separate thread for that, so you can get responses dedicated to the issue of closure to help you process it?

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Hope you're okay out there Breaking Dawn

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Default Jul 16, 2023 at 07:00 AM
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Breaking Dawn. Missed you.

I am back after a 3+ month old hospital stay. Was very delusional and aggressive. Better now but depressed with a lot of lethargy and apathy to do anything.

I have been trying to dust/clean my room but couldn't make it so far. Don't know why I feel so down even when I think of dusting/cleaning my room.
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Breaking Dawn. Missed you.

I am back after a 3+ month old hospital stay. Was very delusional and aggressive. Better now but depressed with a lot of lethargy and apathy to do anything.

I have been trying to dust/clean my room but couldn't make it so far. Don't know why I feel so down even when I think of dusting/cleaning my room.
I changed the bedsheet and dusted a little. At least better than zero.
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Unhappy Jul 16, 2023 at 12:37 PM
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I wish that :grouphug I could feel better :hug and not become depressed

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it goes both ways, if someone is set off by something, their reaction is on them, its their responsibility to work on not getting triggered
its their responsibility to work on not getting triggered....this is very important for me. My father triggers me....I attacked him, mom came in between us and got hurt. I will have to deal with the situation with more diplomacy.
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Unhappy Jul 17, 2023 at 10:54 AM
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It’s my birthday today :sadhug and I am very emotional today and depressed today

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It’s my birthday today :sadhug and I am very emotional today and depressed today
A very happy birthday to you Buffy. Much love and hugs. Hope you feel better soon.
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A very happy birthday to you Buffy. Much love and hugs. Hope you feel better soon.

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It's been a long time, but my mother did something today that really hurt me. I needed support this morning. I called her about 9 am and told her what was going on and asked if she could offer support. She told me, "No, I need my coffee." I thought maybe I would hear back from her later. But she ignored me for the entire day. It hurt very much. I listen to that woman whine, moan, ***** and complain all the time. I always try to stay positive. Today I just needed her to listen to me for a change and she couldn't do it. I can't stop thinking about how hurt and upset I am. I don't plan to call her ever again.

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It's been a long time, but my mother did something today that really hurt me. I needed support this morning. I called her about 9 am and told her what was going on and asked if she could offer support. She told me, "No, I need my coffee." I thought maybe I would hear back from her later. But she ignored me for the entire day. It hurt very much. I listen to that woman whine, moan, ***** and complain all the time. I always try to stay positive. Today I just needed her to listen to me for a change and she couldn't do it. I can't stop thinking about how hurt and upset I am. I don't plan to call her ever again.
I’m that is very hurtful.

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One thing I have learned in life is that in no situation whatsoever am I ever treated in a way I didn’t deserve. The problem is always me. If I don’t get the same respect or attention somebody else got, it has to be due to something I did wrong. Even if someone has been blatantly rude or abusive to me, that person is never being a jerk. I must have set them off somehow. And if I ever try to say any different, then I am “making excuses,” and “blaming everybody else for my problems,” and “not taking responsibility.”
I think that whoever said this is wrong. Everyone deserves respect...

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I think that whoever said this is wrong. Everyone deserves respect...
every one deserves to be treated with respect

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I feel very down and depressed.
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It doesn't matter what I do. I feel like I am bad luck. I'm almost in tears. I don't know why. Here mother wanted a block of swiss cheese and I got her sliced and she made me pay back the money to teach me a lesson despite the fact I told her that was all the stores I went to carried. Then I didn't type in a damn password right, and couldn't get in the website i wanted to. So, I had to wait to fix the situation. It's funny how I seem to get a damn thing right at all. laughs. I don't see how God can truly help a real hapless person like me. What the hell would I be any good for in this password driven world? not good for much, I guess. laughs. I shouldn't say this, but it seems like my week has been rather rotten and here it is ending. Maybe prayer will help since it seems like I'm just hating life since August started. I might as well forget about happiness or anything because it seems like it seems like life hates me, I guess.
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Today is a difficult day for me. I couldn't shower or get dressed this morning. So I had to miss out on a family gathering. I just didn't have the energy to take a shower. Plus I was scared. My last shower was difficult. I have a bad back. I use a chair in the shower but at some point I've got to stand. That caused me pain.

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The new thread is here: Depression Vent Room for Misfits #2
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