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I've fallen short [understatement] of this particular "must".
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Some people are good at confronting others. I'm not. Additionally, my observation is that confrontation rarely results in a change in the confronted's behaviour. I find it easier, more effective (and more isolating) to detach from manipulators.


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AS IS .....................and a friend to yourself
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Happy New Year to little turtle, Rohag, Thirty Shades, SprinkL3, Mimi and all on the AS IS bus.

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Happy New Year to all on the bus.
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To all those who are able to reside in kindness and to be true

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I've fallen short [understatement] of this particular "must".

Some people are good at confronting others. I'm not. Additionally, my observation is that confrontation rarely results in a change in the confronted's behaviour. I find it easier, more effective (and more isolating) to detach from manipulators.

You are ''too nice'' Rohag

A horrible boyfriend used to list what he called my ''shortcomings''

I wish I had said

''**** you too'' He was a JERK

He deserved a BITE from Ursida

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Apparently, I belong in a box called ''a very quiet person''....

I wish I had said ''**** you too'' to that person too who also said many other mean things

Not about anyone on msf

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Love and respect to all on the AS IS BUS

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A ''master manipulator''....

''A person who controls or influences others in a clever or unscrupulous way''

''This is why we must love, accept and trust ourselves, so that we can stand up to unscrupulous behaviour''

''When we doubt our feelings, and push them away, and then write a story like ''Oh they didn't treat me so bad, I must have done something to provoke it'' or you use toxic positivity and say ''I shouldn't have reacted so negatively'' we are giving in to the manipulation and abandoning ourselves.

It's ok to respond ''negatively'' there is nothing wrong with you when this happens.

Of course own your response in a situation, but make sure you communicate that the other person MUST own their behaviour, otherwise there can be no helpful resolution.

Nothing will change and you deserve to be seen, heard, respected and loved.

Meaning me, yes... Fuzzybear, little turtle, Rohag, Thirty shades and all on the AS IS BUS

''Confront a manipulator about what they did wrong, and watch them make it about you'' (source - unknown)


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