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#941
She is different, sometimes the voices
get too loud. She will doubt you, herself and everything around her, sometimes she won't even know how to love herself. That's when you have to be there and pull her back into reality, that's when you have to love her harder, silence those loud voices and erase those doubts. That's when you need to make her feel beautiful. Much love to all on the bus who are AS IS __________________ |
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#942
Hope....
There is no hope for me...All is lost..... I wish it didn't have to be like this, but it is not in my hands..... Love, hugs and respect to all on the as is bus. |
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#944
Well, it seems like I will be stuck in India forever.
I can't adapt to the life here. My biological parents don't care about me though they do let me stay with them, maybe bc in India parents don't ask their children to leave their parents' house once they grow up. But if I have an argument with my mom she does remind me that she is providing me food and shelter. My Dad molested me before, so I am not comfortable staying in the same house with him though he does not make any advance toward me atm. But I can't move out of my parents' house and live on my own bc I am tired and physically sick all the time and have to make an effort to stay out of bed, and so can't work. My ex Indian American boyfriend and his people keep bothering me all the time. They have been virtually torturing me since I came to India with them in March 2014. My usa passport and papers are with him and he has refused to hand them over to me. I wrote to the US government and contacted one of their officials several times but they have not replied. Finally my ex American online boyfriend has also dumped me. So you see. I hate to be in so much physical and mental pain with no future. Sorry for ranting. Most people won't believe my story but God knows that I am speaking the truth. |
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#945
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__________________ My dog mastered the "fetch" command. He would communicate he wanted something, and I would fetch it. |
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I wrote to some western journalists on twitter hoping that they may take up my case but they all blocked me one by one. That shows that they did read my messages, but did not want to be bothered by my problem. I also wrote to an ex defense secretary's son(whom I knew personally) who is currently leading the US cyber command department, but he did not reply. However thankfully he did not block me like the others and I am grateful to him for that. He is my only hope. If he wants he can get me out of India back to usa. But looks like the US government wants me to stay in India for some more time for some reason. But it is getting increasingly difficult for me to adapt to life here. I really don't know what to do. |
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#947
but it is not in my hands.....quote from mimi
dear mimi i have a sense about you that you can be very strong... what can you do to regain some of that strength... |
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#948
Last edited by MimiBhaduri0; Oct 27, 2022 at 01:23 AM.. |
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#949
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#950
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#951
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Also I plan to get more involved with my rescue animals and my garden. What do you all say? |
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#952
I said I will have to accept my fate, but it is not easy. Sometimes the physical pain gets too great to bear. But I have no choice. I will have to bear the pain even when I feel I can't any more, I will have to go on even when I feel I can't go on any more.....God please give me the strength to accept my fate.
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#953
__________________ My dog mastered the "fetch" command. He would communicate he wanted something, and I would fetch it. |
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#954
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#955
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The words we use about ourselves... are important... Finding ways to survive in a difficult reality is itself a way of NOT surrendering to fate. (the opposite of ''accepting that fate'' or an opposite..) __________________ |
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#956
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#957
grrrrrrrrrr
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#958
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#959
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But do I have enough of it? I think it will have to be my major weapon to deal with this difficult reality. |
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#960
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