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Dear Friends,
I have as many problems as many of you, but I appreciate your advice. Of my many issues, the worse is not being able to be part of my children life. My ex does not allow me to contact them at all and I am so unhappy. And I feel so vulnerable and I am not as confident and strong as I was once. I lost everything and I wonder I am 46 do you think is too late for me. Should I give up on life. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk Pro Last edited by FooZe; Jul 10, 2021 at 01:49 PM.. Reason: added trigger icon |
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Thank you my friend I am trying my level best to become better.
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I want to survive and live without the guilt feeling that my kids are out there without me.
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Isn’t there a court system in Japan. Most of the time you can’t just keep kids away from a parent, although some try. Have you taken her to court to establish visitation schedule?
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So Sorry for what you're going through! Please Do not give up! i agree with the other wise and wonderful posters about getting in court if you haven't already of course. Life without Family can be tough but if it is not possible to see your children at least try to Rebuild your Life. Please do not get that discouraged. You are stronger than you yourself think i think. Stay Safe. Sending many Safe, warm hugs to BOTH you, @captaineo, your Family, your Friends and ALL of your Loved Ones! Keep fighting and keep rocking NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS, OK?!
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Thank you Mickey, I am trying my best. Thank you so much for your kind words always echoes good in my spirits, Fuzzy, Bluekoi, Celistie and many of my sisters and brothers in this group. You mean a lot to me even if have not met, I feel I know you. Many blessings Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk Pro |
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It was wrong of me to get involved knowing I have so many issues. I have to fight and try to move forward with my life even with someone I do not love, because I still love my ex wife and my kids. And this is driving me mad. Thank you so much MC, you know my issue since some years now so I appreciate so much your words they fill a void somehow and give me hope Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk Pro |
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Just wishing all of you wonderful people all the best for 2022. Pray to God that we all manage to better our lives.
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Hello, Captaineo. How do things look now?
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I am sorry, Captaineo. I would imagine that even the local legal academy is firmly part of the cultural landscape there.
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Rohag, it is a literal nightmare for divorced Fathers both foreigners and Japanese suffer. In my case on top of my condition Hi all happy 2023, sorry for the late message. Still depressed but fighting my depression. Battle is not over. I do miss my daughters so much, Hi dear friends I am picking up on my same post some years later, hope you are still listening, I feel terrible these days and it’s not getting easy, I take meds and keep my diary, but the dynamics of my family asking me always for money is a problem for me. And they make me feel like a wallet, I have to pay them though because they take care of my sister who’s sick as well. How to live in some kind of happiness like this, appreciate any advice or some kind words dear friends. I still can’t see my kids and is just aweful feeling losing my role as father and my kids losing their father. Plus in a land not of my own I dunno what to do love you all hope you are also fighting a good fight Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk Pro |
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Hi Rohag,
Thank you for your kind reply. Journal helps me more in organizing my thoughts, the meds are hard to stop because I will get panic and difficult to breathe. You know my friend losing my wife and kids did really finally break me completely this was in 2014, but after this I have been battling for my life I have a new couple but is a complex person too and I doubt she will stick around. Now I am 47 and I feel if I am losing or a loser can my friends give me some advice. Love you all and big hugs Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk Pro |
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