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Member Since Jul 2019
Location: Michigan
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I am soooo hopeless. I used to be attractive but now I am 48, all alone, no friends even, no job, no money, old and fat at 200 lbs. I have no life whatsoever. So sad that my best days are gone. I really want a good relationship so badly because I have only been with awful abusers but now I feel too ugly and unworthy for any guy to like me now. I feel absolutely hideous in my body with my ugly skin with stretch marks, scars, and sagging skin. Geez, I can go on for pages and pages about all my flaws.
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Member Since Jul 2019
Location: Michigan
Posts: 101
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I want to be skinny sooo badly, dammit!!
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Member Since Mar 2021
Location: MA: Stanberry, Missouri
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#3
I feel this way myself except I'm not struggling to lose weight.
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Member Since Sep 2019
Location: Earth
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I'm sorry you're struggling. That's a lot to struggle with. I can relate to feeling like you have no friends and wanting a boyfriend. Would you say the effects of the pandemic has hindered your social life and affected your mental health?
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Member Since Nov 2014
Location: Spain ( the land of flowers and gladness, lol!)
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Too much to deal with, right? I know you feel very low and that you are seeing all very dark.
Tell us a little. Are you into antidepressants? In that case, which side effects are they giving you? I tell you because some antidepressants’ side effect is getting your appetite grow. But, there are some other antidepressants that produce the contrary side effect. Do you want to talk with me? There’s always a way out. You are worthy and deserve to be happy. If you feel like chatting. I’m here. Just send me a pm. Ok. I know how you feel and it’s nothing to be ashamed for. You only need some support. __________________ Social Anxiety and Depression. Cluster C traits. Trying to improve my English. My apologies for errors and mistakes in advance. Mankind is complex: Make deserts blossom and lakes die. ( GIL SCOTT-HERSON) |
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Member Since Dec 2018
Location: New Jersey
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__________________ "I carried a watermelon?" President of the no F's given society. |
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And even though I've felt many similar things as you, I do see others with disabilities, with obesity, and with many other flaws have a happy marriage with a significant other (regardless of orientation). I think it's a matter of whether you are actively seeking to find a relationship or not. For me, I'm not actively seeking. I'm also strange in that I'm somewhat gray asexual, due to my traumas, and I'm now freaking out over all things pandemic, which makes social closeness impossible amid these social distancing recommendations. Nevertheless, I fantasize about getting married late in life now - perhaps when I surpass the raging menopause days. I'd hate to start a relationship now, only to turn into a monster with menopause after. I don't meant to offend anyone, but that's one of my true fears of menopause, apart from growing hair in strange places. But if you truly want to find a partner, you can still. Don't give up. |
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