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I'm really sorry that so many awful things have happened to you. How awful that the crisis hotlines can't help. Wish I knew what to say that would help you!
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Here's a quote I saw on Twitter which I thought might help you to restore hope, BlueJackie.
Keep going, please.🙏 Also, maybe a friend or family member could give you a place to stay while you work through things with your mom? Don't give up and consider every option available to you. In my worst times I said, things can't possibly get worse therefore they must get better and I believed in it. And slowly things have indeed been getting better.🙏 __________________ "A flower falls, even though we love it; and a weed grows, even though we do not love it."- Dōgen
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@BlueJackie I am sorry you are a survivor of abuse, no one should have to go through that.
It may seem counterintuitive but breaking away from our parents is a normal part of life. It is not supposed to be so rough as you are going through, but it does allow you to make a new start. There are some possible women's shelters in New York State. A google search under Women Shelters new york or the city you live in should give you some options. Here is only one option that lists 10 options scroll down to see them. @CANDC __________________ Super Moderator Community Support Team "Things Take Time" |
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Hi @BlueJackie.
Hope you're hanging in there and going okay. Hope you are holding on. A lot of self nurturing is needed during these very worst of inner struggles. Just wanted to say I noticed in your other thread that you basically hated the picture quote I posted above - and that's okay. I do get it. I'd just like you to know that I have no one as well, not a soul, completely alone like you are. It's been like this for many years. That's why in my worst times when obviously there was no one to help me, no one to talk to, or support me emotionally, I had to turn somewhere. So quotes like the one I posted above, quotes with loving encouraging sentiments, can, if you realise it's written by a person who understands, can give you hope and encouragement to carry on when you know you've reached the end of the line. I still have my struggles but believe me, you have to grasp onto anything good for support. Anything. But obviously if something doesn't feel helpful for you then, hopefully you'll find something, anything, that will be. Don't give up, please. The only way out is through. __________________ "A flower falls, even though we love it; and a weed grows, even though we do not love it."- Dōgen
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Thank you Fuzzybear, and I do hope you're going okay and managing through your depression. I always enjoy the love you put out there in these forums. It's inspiring, my friend, and encouraging. 🌻❤️ __________________ "A flower falls, even though we love it; and a weed grows, even though we do not love it."- Dōgen
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