[Que Sera Sera]

ive just spent i guess its been since Easter living in limbo land doing nothing.. my house is a disaster, ny yard is a jungle i stink & my hair is a huge knot. i went out today today & discovered the detangle stuff im use to using isnt carried anymore at the store i got it at. now i still look like i just crawled out of a coal mine & have a huge tangly mess of hair on my head. while i am back up &
starting to moving around again i cant imagin myself going out in public too far from my comfort zone looking like i do to find the product im use to using.. any suggestions, ideas, hints, tips &/or thoughts on this il be very greatful to get .thanks in advice for helping me out with this.

[Sohappy]

Originally Posted by Que Sera Sera

ive just spent i guess its been since Easter living in limbo land doing nothing.. my house is a disaster, ny yard is a jungle i stink & my hair is a huge knot. i went out today today & discovered the detangle stuff im use to using isnt carried anymore at the store i got it at. now i still look like i just crawled out of a coal mine & have a huge tangly mess of hair on my head. while i am back up &
starting to moving around again i cant imagin myself going out in public too far from my comfort zone looking like i do to find the product im use to using.. any suggestions, ideas, hints, tips &/or thoughts on this il be very greatful to get .thanks in advice for helping me out with this.

Sounds like you're struggling like me.
Having a messy house and not being to brush your hair every day sounds like you'reseverely depressed. I hope you get up more and more each.

But I don't know what you're struggling with internally that is causing you to be depressed. It could be a multiple of different things and I shouldn't assume too much.

Here are some videos that may or may not apply to you.

How to Process an Emotion | Julia Christina Counselling

One Simple Trick to Actually Love Yourself More | Julia Christina Counselling

5 Simple Things That Will Build Your Confidence | Julia Christina Counselling

A Simple Hack to Stop Your Negative Thoughts | Julia Christina Counselling

How to Deal with A Negative Thought in 3 Simple Steps | Julia Christina Counselling

5 Powerful Ways to Get Over Feeling Angry (Anger Management Techniques) | Julia Christina Counselling

How to Stop Letting Others Guilt You | Julia Christina Counselling

How Emotionally Intelligent People Deal With Negative People | Julia Christina Counselling

Cleaning When Depressed - How to Clean Your Messy House | Angela Brown Cleaning

I do have a hair care product that I use to detangle my hair but it might not work for you. I don't know if it's the same thing you tried. If you feel more comfortable, you can send me a message and can talk about it privately.

[Que Sera Sera]

thank you for those links Sohappy! i will check them out.
i managed to get out today & found another detangle spray & its working pretty good & i have so far gotten 1/2 my knots out.
thanks again for your help & concern.

[Sohappy]

You're welcome. That's great news 🙂 that you went out and found a detangular spray.

I often allowed my hair to get so matted in the past. But now I think I have to make a conscience to have a brush handy everywhere beside my bed, etc. so it doesn't get so bad.

Be patient and kind to yourself.