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Mar 21, 2023 at 05:45 PM
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How can i forgive myself for failing sweetpea angel Ebony?
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Mar 22, 2023 at 02:35 PM
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From what I know of your story, it wasn't your fault. You were in an abusive relationship and it was the other person. So the guilt doesn't belong to you.
As for the grief you feel, sometimes we never get over that. (((((((willowtigger))))))) |
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Mar 22, 2023 at 02:46 PM
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Didn't Ebony get cancer? I really don't think there was much you could do about that. Cancer hits some and not others. It's bad luck. That's all. You love Ebony. You will always love Ebony. Ebony knows you love her. I believe one day you will see her again at the other side of the rainbow bridge. Don't you have two other sweet kitties? Please allow them to distract you and love on you. HUGS Kit __________________ Dum Spiro Spero IC XC NIKA |
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Mar 22, 2023 at 03:52 PM
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Mar 22, 2023 at 03:59 PM
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in the abusive relationship i had my snugglebug Dylan, who when i got away from creepazoid, Mum's then-husband didnt want a cat so the choice he gave was we find Dylan a new home or he'd throw him out onto the streets it was when i got away from that house that i got Ebony Had I known at the time how close i was to getting away and being in a position to have a cat still, i would of tried to get him into a temporary home then got him back it was too late by the time i knew i could get a cat again, Dylan was in a new home but he then went missing, i never knew if he was ever found or if he'd got territorial towards a vehicle again and got hit by a car or lorry or whatever, or even a train cause the people who took him was near a railway station i did say to them he had no road sense so to supervise him when he was learning his new territory
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Mar 22, 2023 at 05:19 PM
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Please forgive yourself. It's not your fault, dear. It doesn't mean that you have to stop loving or grieving. 
Last edited by TheGal; Mar 22, 2023 at 06:52 PM.. |
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