[Dk861]

My life has pretty much been a crap show since I was young.. one thing after another.
The loss of important family members, parents seperated, bullying through school, lack of friends due to social awkwardness.. rejection from girls lead to my first serious relationship starting at the age of 18.
We were close, she was abused at home so moved in with me, they found her and attacked me so we moved away.. they tried accusing me of kidnapping her (she was 18)..
We got married, we had a child and then i found out she'd been cheating on me.. alot! I was very close to my son from a young age whilst she was out sleeping around then she met someone and took him from me and moved away. I spent years alone with no friends or family. I finally met someone new and she was perfect. She also struggles with her mental health. We were planning to get married and have a house together and a 4yr old child.
I just found out that this last year she's been having an affair. It all started from a mental breakdown when she met him.. they became close and it went too far. She kept lying to me everytime I found something and I kept trying to believe her until the final time. Shes since admitted everything but it turns out she was "lovebombed".. he threatened, manipulated and controlled her.. he treated her very badly and she carried on with him in this abusive, toxic relationship. She swears blind its me she wants, she needs help and doesn't know why she was with him. I'm trying to support her through her mental crisis but I don't think I can forgive her and resume the relationship but I am trying. It's a real mind screw when you get cheated on normally but this is very difficult.. really messing with my head!

[CANDC]

Hi @Dk861 welcome to MSF. Sorry you have had some challenges in relationships.

Hope you get some support here. @CANDC