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Location: India
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Jun 19, 2024 at 08:46 AM
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I can't focus on anything my studies, content is boring all is just black and white now
I'm 13M and i have limerence (not love, look it up), i posted on reddit but no help there so here I am There is this girl I can't stop thinking about i saw her in 7th and i talked to her that time, i could feel that this is going to happen but then i fractured my leg and stayed at home for 3 to 4 months and now in 9th i have come to know that she has a boyfriend. And now I'm f***ed, it's not even love I have stayed for this for half a year now and i have had enough also pls update this website this is ancient |
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Jun 19, 2024 at 07:46 PM
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Hi and welcome to MSF...
It sounds like you are experiencing intense emotions. Have you read any poetry? Or written any? I'm thinking you could channel you emotions and create by writing poetry. Most certainly there are many great poets from your country. You might also want to look at sonnets, such as those written by Petrarch and Shakespeare. |
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Jun 19, 2024 at 09:16 PM
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Welcome
I was obsessed with a girl in 7th grade (and another in 9th grade, too). Maybe I had limerence, too, but the term wasn't invented back then. It helped when I participated in activities outside of school. It took my mind off her / them. That the "content is boring" makes me wonder if you should take advantage of ... not sure what it's called there: extra credit or advanced placement or ... higher grade level. My reasoning is that if your time is filled with boredom, you could be living with "miss limerence" in your fantasies, which will only intensify the longing and suffering. Putting energy into school work might help you overcome the issue and provide for a better future. Good luck! __________________ Major Depressive Disorder; Sleep Apnea; possibly on the spectrum Nuvigil 50mg; Effexor 37.5mg Wellbutrin 100mg; meds for blood pressure & cholesterol |
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