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Grand Poohbah
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Feb 09, 2008 at 06:11 PM
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If I left? i had a friend dump me. not in the traditional sense, but i felt it and it was there. just needed to read between the lines.
They didnt come right out and say it. might as well have. I know you cant "assume" but this is a good assumption. and i believe to be right. Just when I let my guard down. %#@&#! just falls on me. Off and on depressed today. trying to keep my chin up. You guys are my friends right? Colleen __________________ Tomorrow always has the potential to be better than today. lets pretend its tomorrow...ok? |
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Feb 09, 2008 at 06:40 PM
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I haven't got to know you well but I'd notice if you left and I'd miss you around here.
As usual, I have to edit and censor (and silence) my thoughts here so they aren't taken the wrong way  So if I seem like a "nothing", that probably isnt the case. ((((((((((( Colleen )))))))))))) Kudos for realising that "assumptions", particularly global negative judgements aren't always correct Most or all here have a good and a not so good side... But you may well be right about this, trust your gut I wish I had done ................
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Feb 09, 2008 at 06:50 PM
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(((Cthomas)))))
i know you'd be missed C... its the depression talking... but no prob if you wanna check and see how we all feel about you... doubt you'll find any support for going anywheres.. letting you know that yes, you matter... and fuzzster.... dont you let them tell you to be silent.... |
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Feb 09, 2008 at 07:01 PM
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I think there would be a difference between whether anyone would "notice" and whether they'd necessarily comment?
Have you written your friend and said you miss them? Some people "dump" others but it doesn't look that way to them. Sometimes it helps if we say, "Hey, come back and dump me right!" :-) so we know what's "happening" for sure. __________________ "Never give a sword to a man who can't dance." ~Confucius |
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Feb 09, 2008 at 07:16 PM
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If it is indeed a friend, pernas advice is spot on!
Hindsight and all that. Wish I'd had the guts and "maturity" to speak up years ago...... in real life, of course. A beloved former T of mine called a friend, not me, a "snail"... but even snails learn. __________________
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Grand Poohbah
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Feb 09, 2008 at 08:05 PM
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Thanks fuzzy, nowhere, and perna. i know you all are right.
I am just in a bad spot right now. havent been posting much. and feel pretty bad about it. On a good note its 74 days without SI....so thats a good thing i guess. thanks again..... Colleen __________________ Tomorrow always has the potential to be better than today. lets pretend its tomorrow...ok? |
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Feb 09, 2008 at 08:06 PM
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74 days is excellent C... : )
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Feb 09, 2008 at 08:19 PM
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CT, we are your friends.
Cyran0 __________________ My blog: http://cyran0.psychcentral.net/ Dx: Generalized Anxiety Disorder, Major Depressive Disorder, PTSD (childhood physical/sexual abuse), history of drug abuse. Meds: Zoloft, Lorazapam, Coffee, Cigarettes "I may climb perhaps to no great heights, but I will climb alone." -Cyrano de Bergerac |
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Grand Poohbah
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Feb 09, 2008 at 08:19 PM
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im working on it.
Thanks Darrell....you guys are awesome! Thanks fuzzy, perna...... Colleen __________________ Tomorrow always has the potential to be better than today. lets pretend its tomorrow...ok? |
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Feb 09, 2008 at 08:21 PM
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((((((((Colleen)))))))))
I would most certainly notice. I'm PM'ing...  
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Feb 09, 2008 at 08:31 PM
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sure.... go off and post in a different place and see if we can find ya.
YES YOU MATTER. Oy. Remember black and white thinking - if one person does that, not *everyone* is gonna do that. ok?!?! I like what perna said - go back and tell em "dump me right" and see if that is what is really taking place. Don't go off and do that again, eh? Go missing for a while and then post in new places looking for familiar posts. you can still post in Si you know (if it doesn't triger you) - you're doing great and we all still miss ya. I miss you. =( kiya __________________ Credits: ChildlikeEmpress and Pseudonym for this lovely image.   alt="Universal Life Church | ULC" border="0">
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Feb 09, 2008 at 08:55 PM
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Im here. not going ANYWHERE... I love you guys. On a good note, i finally got a job i LOVE!!!!
Just needed to check in and hear from you my friends to see if I was still "wanted" here. This was my first week. and it was awesome! Love you guys. Thanks kiya and jac, and CY Colleen __________________ Tomorrow always has the potential to be better than today. lets pretend its tomorrow...ok? |
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Feb 09, 2008 at 09:23 PM
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I am so glad you are not going anywhere Colleen. I would miss you if you ever decided otherwise. Congrats on your new job. I am happy you like it.
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Feb 09, 2008 at 09:34 PM
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(((Perna)))
(((Fuzzy))) (((Bipolarbear))) (((Kiya))) (((Cyrano))) (((nowheretorun))) (((jacq))) Love youguys....all of you.. Colleen __________________ Tomorrow always has the potential to be better than today. lets pretend its tomorrow...ok? |
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Feb 09, 2008 at 09:53 PM
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((((((((((( Colleen )))))))))))
That hurts so much. Sending gentle hugs
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Feb 11, 2008 at 02:34 AM
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yay! glad you got a job you love!!! I may also be in a new one on tuesday - temping, you know. Hopefully with far fewer triggers than my current placement.
Glad you're staying, Colleen!!!! kiya __________________ Credits: ChildlikeEmpress and Pseudonym for this lovely image. alt="Universal Life Church | ULC" border="0">
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Feb 11, 2008 at 09:22 AM
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((((((((((( Colleen )))))))))))
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Feb 11, 2008 at 11:35 AM
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i haven't gotten to know you very well, but I know that you're here!!!!!! and you'd definately be missed if you left!!!!!!!!!!!!!
((((((((((((((((((((((COLLEEN))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))) I know not only me, but all of PC would miss you and your kind heart!!! I suffer from depression too and i understand what your going through...keep your chin up! the sun will eventually shine through!!!!! good luck!!!!! xoxoxox __________________ Sometimes my words don't make sense, or have anything to do with anything. but i try. try to make them work. 
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