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Aug 25, 2024 at 07:28 PM
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If I could start my life over, I would do it in a heartbeat if I meant I got a second chance. It means I get to make different choices and not the same choices I made before.
If that meant my current life had to come to an end to start over, then it's something that I would willingly accept. There are decisions that my past self has made that I have since regretted. I am not the same person I was a few years ago, and I have changed since then. I wish my past self had deeply thought about the consequences before making those decisions. |
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Aug 31, 2024 at 10:29 AM
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@LonelyLioness01 I am sorry things have happened that you regret. The up side of that when I regret something is I make a determination to not do that action I regret again. That is the first step in having a new life.
You are a different person than you were yesterday or last year or 10 years ago. Nothing and no one stays the same. The conditions and circumstances that led you to act in that way are gone and your regret shows you are not ready to do that again. So what that says to me is that even if you cannot change some of the consequences of your action, you can start a ne life right now in your mind. You could treat others kindly and see that people make mistakes and let go of that. We all make mistakes. We can correct them also. I hope that you stay hopeful and have compasson for yourself. CANDC [If you want me to see your reply to this post please include @CANDC in your message - not in requoting my message] __________________ Super Moderator Community Support Team "Things Take Time" |
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Sep 12, 2024 at 09:50 PM
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I think we would all do different things with our lives in hindsight and/or knowing how things would play out. This is a completely normal thing and I think about it everyday. Unfortunately I don't think much could be done in my situation to save me or change things but I still dwell on it.
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Yesterday at 10:00 AM
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I am not sure I would live my life again, even if I could
It's been such a struggle for me... not quite sure I'm completely with the dying though. I mean, sure we all do it, I just... I don't know. I just feell strange about it. |
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Location: parker co
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Yesterday at 10:23 AM
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I am one of the few people that I know that if they could change their life they would change the outcome.I don't have regrets.I have lessons learned.Sometimes they were at the cost of family or friends or even self but I was still a lesson nonetheless There are a few things.I wish I could take back with everything in me.I wish I could get those moments back that but I Can't so I just have to keep Inhaling and exhaling. Until I let go, but I can't live in the past. No one, can you just have to accept it? That's what it is, and that's why I tell young people be very, very careful. What bridges you burn? Because you never know when you're gonna need to cross it again and everybody says oh well, I'll never ask for that getting well. You might 20 years from now.You know , and if you could come back , you would probably not come back with the knowledge that you have , so you might make the same mistakes , at least thats how I look at it
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