[allcriedout]

I'm extremely depressed. I don't want to get out of my bed. My boyfriend of one year and seven months told me that something is missing in our relationship and that he needs to date other people for a while. But he doesn't know what's missing. I'm literally all cried out. I've cried so much I can't anymore. I haven't eaten, smiled, or shown a sign of life since he told me this sunday. I have been worried that he won't come back to me. I'm scared I've lost him forever. I need help. I need serious help. I need him back. I don't know what to do. I can't do this forever. I have to get him back before I waste away. Nothing feels right without him. I feel lost and deserted and abandoned without him. I need him. Please. Help me.

[wisewoman]

I am sorry you are in so much pain. The shock will wear off but right now it hurts too bad. it will get better.

(((((hugs2you)))))
They say that time eases all wounds; and they are right. Though you can't imagine feeling better; more pleasant times are headed your way. Find some support with skin such as a therapist, family member, clergy, etc. as they will often be the most support for a person; but know that we are here for you to.
Have a nice day, and sorry for your pain.
Jon

[gloria]

I ecco Jon.
Don't go through this alone, find a good friend, support from your church or family, even a therapist. find ways to keep your self busy.
This too shall pass.
Take care and keep on talking to us.

gab

[shakes]

AllCriedOut,
I have been in your shoes so many times before and I know that it hurts like hell. While the logical part of me wants to tell you that keep yourself busy and it will pass.....the emotional part of me knows that all you want to do is lay in bed and cry.
So my advice is just take care of yourself until you feel strong enough to stand up. Please feel free to post here...we are here to listen.

Stay strong,
Jessica

"Take these chances. Place them in a box until a quieter time..." ~DMB

[allcriedout]

He told me today that he wanted to wait a month and then we try to work things out. I told him that if he hopes that we get back together then we do need to work things out, and not wait month after month. I said we need to take a couple of weeks and then after sometime apart come back and try to work it out. He agreed with me.

[Wants2Fly]

Dear All Cried --

The end of a relationship l can be really hard. Many of us here have been through it. Please keep writing and posting.

It will take as long as it takes to feel better. Please take care of yourself.

Love and hugs.