[Lexicon78]

My sister is going through a rough time. Yesterday she said she was moving away and was never gonna return. She said she never wanted to speak to any of the family, including me. Our mother just died and now it feels like my sister is dying. I'm gonna be left alone again. I don't want to lose her...I can't. I don't have it in me to lose someone else. I haven't got the strength to deal with it.

I love me sister so much, I don't know what I'd do if I didn't have her around to help me out. We need each other right now...we don't need to be separated.

Im so sorry your sister is leaving. It sounds like a scary time. I'm sure you will have challenges in dealing with it but perhaps you can begin to mobilize your resources to help you cope. -- Scheduling time with friends, making time for weekly calls with your sister when she is away if possible., etc. I do not doubt you will have strong feelings about this. It sounds like a big challenge, but you are strong enough to deal with it. You have our support.

[Wants2Fly]

I'm so sorry your sister is leaving. I wish I had that kind of close relationship with my brother.

Perhaps she just needs some down time. Is she one to retreat into her shell when she is scared or blue? I know you will get through this, and I hope things work out for both of you.

[kax25]

I am sorry to hear your sister is leaving. Mine is in georgia and im in maryland, but we went through a time where we didnt talk for a month or 2 but we realized we needed to talk to eachother and we needed to be there for one another. I guess what im trying to say that you just need to give it time and let it take its course and it will work out in the end. I know you're stong and i hope you can get through this. We are all here for you.
Max