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Old Jul 28, 2008, 10:17 PM
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I am so excited just so excited!!!! For once since my youngest child was born Im going to be kidless for a whole week!!!!!!!!!!!! Ok maybe this is twice since we did go away on our honeymoon for a week alone and that was so great to... My oldest child went away to her grandmothers house for a week and she'll be back on sunday then she was only suppose to come home for a few hours while pappy worked and then he was taking her back up...They live an hour away and live on a 12 acre farm and she has a blast when shes up their.. However no one ever takes the youngest, it has given me some negative feelings towards everyone because no one wants to take her anywhere.. Not even just for a few hours, their uncles come and get my oldest for the day and take her places and do things with her but never the youngest..Then we sit home and listen to her cry all day literally every other hour for her sissy.. I have thought about putting my foot down and saying if diddle cant go then sana cant go eaither.. But then I feel like im punishing sana bug because no one wants to take diddle.. So today my neice and nephew called and wanted to come stay with me for the week (they live 2hrs away) and I told them no cause sana wasnt home and they wouldnt have much fun here..So I told them I will make sana stay home on sunday and they can come stay for a week starting sunday..So my sister called me back and said she was coming to take dazi till sunday!!! Shes gone now and I miss her already..But im so happy because now she finally gets to go somewhere and I hope she has a good time. She went willingly and she was fine when she left..Hubby and I are going to have some alone time..Im also going to work two extra days (gotta save for school clothes)..I dont want to go out or anything just have some quiet alone time with my husband..It will be nice during the day when hes working I can sleep in lol.....Well Im hoping this will be a well relaxed and needed good week....

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Old Jul 28, 2008, 10:58 PM
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That's exciting. Hope you and your husband have a good time doing whatever you want to do.

And honestly, I understand how you do not want to punish your oldest child for nobody taking your youngest with them ever, but I really think you should say something. Especially if it is family. If it was just a friend with a child close to your oldest, it would be a different story. But, I really do find it sort of rude that family members of yours would only take 1 kid all the time and not the other ever.
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Old Jul 28, 2008, 11:02 PM
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Wonderful! I hope you will enjoy your week sweetie.

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Old Jul 29, 2008, 12:04 AM
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Have an awesome week.

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Old Jul 29, 2008, 08:29 AM
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Please enjoy the time alone with hubby. I'm sure the two of you can use it. Great opportunity!
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Old Jul 29, 2008, 08:57 AM
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Ecstatic!!!! Ecstatic!!!! Ecstatic!!!! Ecstatic!!!!
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Old Jul 29, 2008, 05:03 PM
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Enjoy your peace and I hope your girls have a good time.
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Old Jul 30, 2008, 08:14 AM
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I love it when we have ecstatic posts on this board! I think it can be nice especially when you're depressed to know that happy things do happen to people. Depression sort of narrows how you take in information. Everything gets filtered through a depressive lens and everything seems boring or sad..it sometimes feels like nothing ever gets better. BUT happy things do happen and I am excited for you that you will get this time for yourself and marriage! Ecstatic!!!!
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