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#1
Aug 03, 2008, 04:31 PM
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why do so many folks get pissy when folks actually start to get better, see the light at the end of the tunnel or see a glimmer of happiness? just asking.
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Aug 03, 2008, 04:44 PM
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((((((((((((Roz))))))))))))))))))
Some people are used to feeling really down, and they can feel resentful if others manage to get out of the "hole" (depression) and they're still stuck there. Some people don't like change, and if other people change then they don't deal with it in the most nice way. But I don't think there's any reason for folks being "pissy" for others feeling better... if that's happened to you, I'm very sorry.  
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Aug 03, 2008, 04:49 PM
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can you help me understand Roz?
please define your meaning of 'pissy'? and what do you mean by 'getting better'? thank you, no harm intended |
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Aug 03, 2008, 05:04 PM
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nowhere, you know what she is saying!
people wanna feel sorry all the day long!!! is that what we have to say around here? sometimes the most negative of feelings, they come and go, right? because what Roz said is - they see some light, like in responses we ask for. Why do we have to spell everything out to people, is what I want to know. especially when somethings might hurt them, although the truth, we must be gentle, See? I think i heard - go easy cause there is an answer coming, a glimmer of hope, a ray of light. Peace, Night
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Aug 03, 2008, 05:09 PM
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I like to see people getting better. I don't like people accusing other people of being 'pissy' though!
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Aug 03, 2008, 05:11 PM
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Aug 03, 2008, 05:13 PM
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no harm intended Roz, i wanted to be sure i understand what you meant by 'pissy' so i dont do that in the future...
i wanted to understand your idea of what 'healed' means so i and the others could help you achieve the goals you have set... i am sorry if i offended.. but if i am to labeled as 'pissy' about someones growth, i would like to understand what is exactly meant by that... |
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Aug 03, 2008, 05:16 PM
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yes, i like nowhere and his curious spirit, i just question him on what he questions...lol... if that makes sense.
not to worry nowhere. i see what Roz has her issue with as do many others. she seeks answers to emotional turmoils. i have that with my cancer. you have had that with your past. we all have that being on here to begin with. may we all experience some peace, love and understanding in the coming hours, days and weeks! wishing us all to be be well, with some happiness on the side! night xoxoxoxoxoxo
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#9
Aug 03, 2008, 05:20 PM
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(((Nightbird)))) no issues...
sending hope for peaceful healing Roz.. it is very hard to give into the pain and express it responsibly.. i know from experience.. i hope you feel better soon
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#10
Aug 03, 2008, 05:21 PM
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((((((((Christina))))))) Thank You for understanding. I never thought of it that way before. Maybe coz my mindset is folks should work to getting better and folks should be glad for them. Anyway, thanks again ok?
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#11
Aug 03, 2008, 05:27 PM
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Administrative Edit.
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#12
Aug 03, 2008, 05:27 PM
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oh, you surely are a prince!
bless your heart nowheretorun i so get you and you are inspiratonal! mat your days be happy, NTR, and your goals very close. love, night xoxoxoxoxo
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#13
Aug 03, 2008, 05:31 PM
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((((((((bird)))))))) Thank You for that. Much appreciated. Nice to know someone who is real and doesn't try to play mind games. And yes....i try to be gentle in my responses when someone is hurting...but it is not so easy when i think i'm being made a fool of or attacked for owning to hurting. Thank You and much peace and love to you, roz xx |
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#14
Aug 03, 2008, 05:33 PM
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(((((((((Pegasus))))))) I know. I'm just trying to be honest. Sorry if that offended you! Love to you
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Aug 03, 2008, 05:36 PM
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Administrative edit.
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#16
Aug 03, 2008, 05:39 PM
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((((((((((Fuzzy)))))))))
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Aug 03, 2008, 05:41 PM
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i can see what you say roz, as its not only if you feel better its if you feel worse as well not just online i find it more irl
hopefully i dont come across like that to anybody, but i know sometimes my feelings are to strong to worry about others (((((((((((roz))))))))))
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#18
Aug 03, 2008, 05:47 PM
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((((((((Kathy)))))))) i think gentle love is the answer for me but i also know i sometimes don't deserve it with my attitude. peace and love to you
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#19
Aug 03, 2008, 08:02 PM
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everyone always deserves love Roz ....... love and care to you, Kerry xoxoxoxoxoxo
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