Can I complain

(((((((((((((((((Griffe)))))))))))))))))))))))000000

you have survived a horrible horrible time .... you must be strong to have endured it all and be here and have a wife and 2lovely kids ....... you ARE SOMEBODY, YOU ARE A FRIEND TO SO MANY, A PARTNER TO KATE, A DAD TO TWINS ....... it makes me sad when you say you're a nobody when you are a somebody ...... i love you, you always here to support and give your love to others.... sending hugs to you dear friend me xoxoxoxoxoxo

(((((((((((((( Griffe )))))))))))))

You are a somebody,
love
furry paws

((((( Jinny, Fuzzy )))))

Sorry to keep replying to my thread and prolonging this whining Just got no where else to talk because I sure as hell am not going to drag Kate down with this and half my IRL friends hate me as is. I seem to %#@&#! people off left and right with no intention of doing so, that's one thing I'm good at, making people hate me

Can't even say ha;f of what I want to say because I'll get in trouble but life is just too &^%$ing much. I feel like so often I'm screaming and no one can hear me, no one is listening, or just no one wants to hear.

I should just get the hell over myself and stop being whiny. Thanks for saying I'm someone but how? Kate would be better off without me and I love our kids but they deserve a good father, not me. I failed Vlad anyways, he's gone, I deserve all the pain I'm getting right now.

I should log out and go crawl under my covers and just shut up. My eye hurts so %#@&#! bad my body hurts my arm feels like it's on fire. Go to hospital, everyone says it, but I can't, I have to be strong. I have to stay at home. I'm a great big mess, swollen and in such bad pain. Breathing is a chore I just need to talk and I need to be heard sometimes. Faking that I'm "fine" gets to %#@&#! tiring because I'm not fine. I want something but IDK what.

You are a very important part of our community. You don't have to be strong all by yourself. We are here to provide you with the understanding and support that will help to make you strong.



Believe me you don't want a frog of little brain for your nurse.

Like many of us, I think you have been temporarily brainwashed into accepting a bully's point of view that "strong" = bluster. It is not.

(((((((((( griffe )))))))))))

Maybe it's time to take a good hard look at the definition of "strong".

Strong can mean having the strength to realize that everyone in this life at some time or another needs help. It is not weak to ask for help. It is strong to ask for what you need.

"No man is an island unto himself."

When one is floundering within and cannot find solutions to their problems from within, one must reach out for assistance. There is no weakness in admitting there is a problem too big for you to handle alone. There is strength in that reaching out that you can grasp from those who reach back and offer you assistance. One can draw on the strength of others and in turn find their own personal strength.

You are strong because you are reaching out....you are strong because you are a survivor. You are not alone, nor should you be.


sabby