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Old Oct 13, 2008, 08:28 PM
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Old Oct 13, 2008, 08:32 PM
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((((( mybestkids )))) I can hear you, what's going on?
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Old Oct 13, 2008, 08:36 PM
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Thanks gimmeice....I imagine theres a thread somewhere here from the early part of September talking about my husbands cancer coming back.

I'm exhausted, overwhelmed, and think I'm turning mean and nasty. Only 1 good friend, no family. Just a T once a week, and 2 young kids who really don't know what to think.

Someone turn on the lights, please!!!!!!!!!!!
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Old Oct 13, 2008, 08:38 PM
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(((((( mybestkids )))))))))))) I am sorry that you are going through this with so little support, my thoughts are with you and your family.
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Old Oct 13, 2008, 08:39 PM
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Old Oct 13, 2008, 09:44 PM
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Old Oct 13, 2008, 10:06 PM
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Thank you dear friends. Your kind thoughts mean so much!!!!!!
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Old Oct 14, 2008, 12:33 AM
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i do hear you and i remember how overwhelmed i felt when my mom was diagnosed with breast cancer after it had spread. i was the only one who realized that she was not going to beat this illness. i had no support from my dad who was in understandable denial and no support from my spouse who did not or perhaps could not identify with me or support me in any way.

i felt gut-wrenching fear, deep sadness, some anger, helplessness and the beginning of grief over what was coming. All those feelings seemed to cycle through my being randomly and painfully. it was awful and life had to go on for my two children.

i feel for you and know it seems too much to bear. BUT,

bit by bit you will make it through this time, you will. i know you do not know me but my PM is open to you anytime if you need to rant, vent or mourn, or cuss. i will pray for you and your family.

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I hear you. Please make some special time just for you. (((((((((((((( MyBestKids ))))))))))))))
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Old Oct 14, 2008, 06:59 AM
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(Mybestkids)))))))))))))))) please know i care about you ...
this is one of the hardest things to go threw..
I wish i could make it all better..but i can not..
I can offer support and a ear if you need it...
as keeping it all in is not good for you aww
please take care of you too...
I know easyer said then done with what you are dealing with....
we all love you here...you are a kind soul....
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Old Oct 14, 2008, 07:16 AM
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Old Oct 14, 2008, 07:43 AM
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Old Oct 14, 2008, 11:51 AM
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Thank you all...this is the 2nd day he hasn't gone to chemo.........
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Old Oct 14, 2008, 12:25 PM
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((BestKids))))) doing what i can to offer support everywhere i can, sorry this has slipped past me... know by these posts that you have caring friends here... this is so hard for you to do alone and you can receive whats given here as additional strength to help you thru.. i know so much is hard to understand but understand that the pain you feel is derived from the love you've made... but the pain is not the love... its like the fat in the bacon... some of us even become addicted to it... but let as much of it go as you can now and feel only the kindness and strength given freely to you now.... sending hope, you will make it thru this, no matter what occurs, your inner spirit will be fine.. let yourself feel loved and be loved by friends now....
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