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Old Feb 27, 2009, 10:00 AM
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last night, as i sat in my room alone watching my friends get ready to go out and have fun, i realized how much i hate myself. i could have gone out...its almost like i put this lonliness on myself. but last night i felt like i was going to be lonely forever. i dont really know where im trying to go here, i guess i just need some hugs

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Old Feb 27, 2009, 10:00 AM
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Old Feb 27, 2009, 10:26 AM
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Old Feb 27, 2009, 10:50 AM
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lmg103,
you are never on your own when your on PC .........

You asked for hugs, no problem ((((((lmg103))))))

I have plenty more, where that came from

Stay Safe
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Old Feb 27, 2009, 11:54 AM
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for sure lmg,
can u identify the feeling that causes the loneliness? is it based on not knowing where u are going with your life?
since i "know" you, i just want to reasssure you that at your age many of us didn't know where we were going. sometimess maybe, but most times it was hazy about what we wanted to do with our life. i think it's pretty natural to doubt about these things.
you might try just living in the day....enjoying it for what it is. i believe if you got out more it would help too. being around friends can be a great distraction. you don't have to force being jolly. just be yourself. the rest will follow. it will be ok.
i often used to say "the hardest door to open was my very own." if u can get those feet of yours beyond that threshold, this will take some courage i know, you may be pleasantly surprised with the results. you don't have to stay out long particularly at first. just take baby steps to acclimate yourself comfortably with others.
i'm glad you posted about how you are feelling today. i'm sure u will get a lot of support here. if what i say makes any sense, hope you'll try to take those baby steps. i care about you and you do matter to me a lot. you've been a good friend to me, now try to be a good friend to yourself. you deserve that!!
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Old Feb 27, 2009, 01:38 PM
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((((((((((( lmg )))))))))))))

Sending you lots of hugs
I agree with Madisgram, maybe try taking some baby steps, it will come in time.
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Old Feb 27, 2009, 02:16 PM
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Old Feb 27, 2009, 06:04 PM
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Old Feb 28, 2009, 06:59 AM
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(((((((((((((((((((((lmg103)))))))))))))))))))))

You are doing the best that you can! Don't be so hard on yourself.
It is hard being lonely and depressed.
I am sorry you feel this way.
Please hate the depression and loneliness not IMG103! IMG103 is not the enemy DEPRESSION is!!!!

Thanks for this!
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Old Feb 28, 2009, 04:38 PM
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(((((((((((((((((((((lmg103)))))))))))))))))))))

You are doing the best that you can! Don't be so hard on yourself.
It is hard being lonely and depressed.
I am sorry you feel this way.
Please hate the depression and loneliness not IMG103! IMG103 is not the enemy DEPRESSION is!!!!


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i hate who i am

Yesterday I was so clever, so I want to change the world.
Today I am wise, so I am changing myself.

Thanks for this!
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