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Wise Elder
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Mar 02, 2009 at 01:04 AM
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I'm lonely. I feel empty.
But I'm afraid to go hang out with people. I'm so afraid. Especially with how they react to what I've been going through. I try to get to lessons, but practicing is sporadic, i'm afraid to go to my studio classes which I'm invited to because of how the people react and just bleh x.x __________________  Yesterday I was so clever, so I want to change the world. Today I am wise, so I am changing myself. |
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Location: SW Ontario
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Mar 02, 2009 at 02:52 AM
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Hello:
It saddens us to know that you share in these feelings and difficulties. I do empathize and understand how that feels and know how difficult it can be to make those connections ... how the fear of what others might be thinking about how one responds ... or doesn't respond in those social settings. It's very difficult to learn how to deal with those situations and gain a certain level of comfort in them. The fear can be very overwhelming as can that sense of isolation and loneliness. Wishing you peace, comfort and resolutions to all the challenges you're facing and trying so hard to contend with: Kefrin __________________ ~~~~~~~~ SELAH ~~~~~~~~ Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind. ~~ Dr. Seuss ~~ ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ KEFRIN  |
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A lonely Loner
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Location: Away from Polaris
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Mar 02, 2009 at 06:58 AM
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i feel lonely and empty too ..iam so sorry you have to feel this way too i know its really hard ..iam here with you.... 
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Location: D`Aguilar Queensland Australia
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Mar 02, 2009 at 07:15 AM
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turquoisesea
It seems everyone is feeling a little alone and lost these days .Just take one step at a time and let other people worry about their hang ups just practice going slow at first . Every little step helps.I am finding Trust can play a big part in how we help ourselves just ask 1 friend to be lonely with you . It may sound Corney but just 1 friend can make a difference . And remember you have lots of people online to help you when things look dark __________________ |
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Location: Rocky Mtn High, love all :)
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Mar 02, 2009 at 08:56 AM
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((sea)))) i have felt as you many many times... wanting connection, not knowing how to connect... feeling afraid, lonely, weakened by what ive seen, feeling hopeless and feeling that the ship is going down... i will tell you this.... the strength, the answer, the hope is in You.... let helpful people light your path and in time, dance in the light
 .. sending hope and care always trying one..
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Mar 02, 2009 at 09:19 AM
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(((((((((((((( turquoisesea )))))))))))))))
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Mar 02, 2009 at 09:43 AM
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((((((((((turquoisesea))))))))))
I'm sorry to hear that you are feeling lonely  Opening up and talking with people about your feelings is SUCH a hard thing to do as you allow yourself to become completely vulnerable. Its difficult to find those people that you can truly trust... but keep looking because there are people out there who do care about you and who will not judge you or think any differently of you. Fortunately, lots of those people are here at PC. You are already "practicing" by posting on here, and we welcome you with open arms. It will get easier... I promise Jacq
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Location: in the glitch inside my brain
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Mar 02, 2009 at 10:49 AM
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(((((((((((((( turquoisesea ))))))))))))))) I am sorry you are lonely. It is a painful feeling. And I don't want you to be in pain. Wish I could say something more helpful and wise. But hugs are all I have. Hope they help a little.
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Mar 02, 2009 at 11:01 AM
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(((((turquoisesea)))))
We love you. We need you. We appreciate your being here for us. Keep that in mind. 
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Mar 02, 2009 at 12:28 PM
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Mar 02, 2009 at 12:30 PM
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Mar 02, 2009 at 06:29 PM
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Thanks again for your PM. I hope we can keep on exchangings our thoughts.
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