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Mar 08, 2009, 10:33 AM
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iam to naive or maybe iam just stupid ....i really thought i could got some love from parents but....iam to naive....end with tears now....i shouldn't expecting everything so not gonna end hurt like this
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Mar 08, 2009, 10:41 AM
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((puffy))) love is so much a confusing affair... what we seek we sometimes grasp only to watch it fall away again...
know your parents knew what love was in thier own way, in thier own time... you are the very proof of that... let those tears you shed fall and fall away like the pain of yesterday, yesteryears... let you be you and feel real, new, and alive.... cast away the tears that leave the wrinkle your gramma had about the face and she knew the tears... you are you and now in this moment, making all that you have and receiving what is around you... and you my dear have the inner child to see, to feel, to express from within the pain you've known on your very own road that still awaits and unrolls beneath your feet in every step you take... it is you, the one to play love songs, who looks about in wonder, confusion, and heartache.. and it is you dear one who looks and feels the madness of the city... the dark beneath the sewer grates and the sounds of the wails of the tormented.. it is you, with eyes that do see, that cares for what is... it is within you , small child dreaming of flowers and rainbows, within your very own set of clothing and skin that holds the key to this light you see there, behind the cloud, behind the rainbow.. the lining that is there for all to see... it is you who is a keeper of this most sacred light... |
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Mar 08, 2009, 10:46 AM
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Thank you so much nowheretorun ,but maybe someday i could open my eyes and not blinded by sorrow anymore so i could see the rainbow or maybe just maybe....but for now iam too sad....and feel so stupid...
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Mar 08, 2009, 05:42 PM
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((((puffy)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))) dear one. I too am naive ...sometimes that can be a good thing.
 It does not mean you are stupid at all. It more than likely means you have a kind heart. Also are sensitive. Expecting love from a parent ......every child in a perfect world should get. It at times was lacking from my life. There is never a call I do not end with my children letting them know they are loved. I am not perfect either.I just feel its very important to share that with those you love . I hope you can see at some point how much you matter in life. Can lift up from your sorrow and see the light. With in you ((you do matter))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))) 
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Mar 08, 2009, 06:13 PM
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 its all I can give Just try give all the love you can and if you get any back call it a bonus love until it hurts and see who comes to patch you up
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Mar 08, 2009, 08:19 PM
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(((((((((((((((puffyprue))))))))))))))))))))
Parents seem like they hate sometimes, seem like they love, but the thing that really matters is if YOU love you. I hope you do, or if you don't can learn to love you hope that wasn't off x.x but that's what i think 
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Mar 09, 2009, 03:26 PM
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(((((((((((((((( prue )))))))))))))))))
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Mar 19, 2009, 07:41 AM
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(((((((((((((((((((Puffy)))))))))))))))))))
You know, I had the issue with my adoptive parents. Still do.. Deep down, your parents do love you.. Maybe they're just not sure how to show you that, or they don't know how to help you to feel loved by them. If they didn't love you, they wouldn't have had you.. You may not feel love all the time, or even at all, but please remember that, while you may not feel loved by your parents, that's not all that matters.. Friends, other members of your family, people here, love you.. I hope this helps. PM me if you need. 
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Mar 19, 2009, 03:31 PM
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(((((((((((((((((puffy))))))))))))))))))
Family is tricky. I'm sorry yours have made you so sad. For what it's worth, you have a different family here at PC, and we all care about you so much. I'm sending you lots of hugs.
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Mar 19, 2009, 03:42 PM
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For many years I was upset about my family. Thought they were too distant and uncaring. This made my life hell and wanted to run away. Then I began to realize that neither parent had enough to give and they had given as much as they could. Now in my parents elderly years, I especially see my Father's soft side. Hope you can see your way through also.
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Mar 19, 2009, 03:58 PM
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i dont expect anything from my parents... yes parents are suppose to support us and help us,especially through tuff times but some parents can't, wont or dont know how. SOme dont care about anyone but themselves. have you received love and support from others sometimes that helps, even though it is not the same.
it does hurt i understand. |
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Mar 19, 2009, 09:40 PM
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thanks for all of you those who replies my post and yeah great community i have here in pc...my parents maybe they love me but not in the way that i want them to be but its okay this life i should take it whatever it comes...or maybe they not loves me that much coz iam adopted....whatever....i didnt care anymore....
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