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Old Oct 02, 2009, 01:25 PM
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it wehn try to wreiteds are tell soemone how we does feel & it dotn coem uot rite & they gets mad at her. beads IS autistic adn we aer try sooooooo hard but not good enuf makeds me think we shuold not even try nomoer cuz we will never be good enuf at this.
if anyeon else hear has this truoble please can yuo help us by explain what u do when this happen so that it dont hurteds so bad?
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it wehn try to wreiteds are tell soemone how we does feel & it dotn coem uot rite & they gets mad at her. beads IS autistic adn we aer try sooooooo hard but not good enuf makeds me think we shuold not even try nomoer cuz we will never be good enuf at this.
if anyeon else hear has this truoble please can yuo help us by explain what u do when this happen so that it dont hurteds so bad?
thank yuo
Beads,
There are so many times that all of us have this problem......sadly, I have experienced exactly what you are describing without having the disabilities that you are struggling with. For me, it makes me angry at them for not taking the time to understand. I have realized that is isn't us that has the problem & it isn't us that isn't good enough....it is those who don't bother to take the time to understand or care....because if they took the time, they would understand & they wouldn't get mad.

The problem is that there are people out there who just don't care & don't want to take the time to understand....they would rather get mad at what they believe they read rather than finding out what was really written by you....many times things we write can have several ways of looking at it & when someone choses to believe what they think they read rather than what you really mean & end up getting mad at it......they are the ones that are wrong.....not you.

I know how bad it hurts...& the real problem is that it seems there is nothing we can do in this world to make those mean people more sensitive.....Please keep in mind that there are also the people out there who do care about you & that take the time to listen to what you really are saying & who think you are MORE THAN GOOD ENOUGH. Beads, you are special.....& there are more of us who know that than there are those who get mad at you because they don't want to understand.

Focus on that & also, you know that God loves you & cares & knows exactly what you mean & what you are saying.

It's not easy to throw away what those mean people say or do, but it's important to not believe them & try to throw away their mad feelings as you are the one that should be angry at them for not taking the time to really understand & not get mad.

You will get through this......fucus on how many people love & care about you & don't get mad at you for what you write.

We love you Beads & don't ever forget it,

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Dear BeadLady and Beads ~ your writings are some of my favorite. Your style is unique and all your own, and I can read it easily. There is no problem. You don't have to do ANYTHING. We love you, all of us, and your style is part of what we love. I can't put it as poetically as Debbie, above, but when I see something written by you I will always read it. It comes out right, because we can understand it just fine. It is part of the poetry that is you! I can't make pictures like many of the others, but I won't stop posting, because I love it. Don't stop writing. We love to hear from you. See, you can make smilies. I can't. ~ Caring About You, billieJ

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Beads so tuoched that her really dos not no waht esl to say beside
thanh yuo!!!!!


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