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Old Jan 06, 2010, 11:05 PM
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When....all my alters special the baby one, miss someone that is
very important to them.

When we all have losing issues, what to do to keep the system to
understand that all this is normal.

I don't know what to do .... everything is so confusing.

Please let me know what I can do to help special the baby.
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Old Jan 07, 2010, 02:21 PM
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Well, for us, thumb sucking did work Genn, although lately after much therapy around the baby and other 'wee ones' we find that is less necessary. We also went to the place where she first made herself known to us and we reminded her we loved her. We keep thinking we maybe find more things to help but it is kinda hard to know for the body she is in is so big.

Hope this can help a bit. Safe Hugs to little babby




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When....all my alters special the baby one, miss someone that is
very important to them.

When we all have losing issues, what to do to keep the system to
understand that all this is normal.

I don't know what to do .... everything is so confusing.

Please let me know what I can do to help special the baby.
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Old Jan 07, 2010, 04:57 PM
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we be trying to figure that out ourselfs. We finely just do thw best we can do to keep em happy. We try very hard to keep their safty items with us. We keep stuffies and blanket in car and we take naps often to keep them from being over tired.
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Old Jan 08, 2010, 08:42 AM
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I agree - keep the littles safe and always let them know they are loved too. Remind them that they can always come to you for what they need. That is what we are learning how to do.
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