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Apr 10, 2010, 09:59 PM
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There is no safety, no good thoughts. Everyone is everyplace on the spectrum. She is crying and scared. We are holding on the best we can. Realizations are hard and she feels like she is being drug through massive rocks and bumps that hit her hard and richochet off all within. Trying to find cover and safety. We are holding on the best we can. Sometimes through pain she pushes away from everyone. She is scared as are all within. Feels like we are alone and nothing or no one is near. Thank you for listening. Sometimes it is all we can do to write. This is one of those times.
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 anderson, Hunny, sabby
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Apr 10, 2010, 10:10 PM
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(((((((((((( dps )))))))))))))))) We understand the darkness that cries without a voice. We send you big hugs!
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Apr 11, 2010, 03:33 AM
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(((((((((((((((dps/Victoria)))))))))))))))
we understand so well the darkness and the pushing away...we will sit here with you for as long as it takes...tears are good at times because they release the tension within...know that even while she is pushing away she is crying out for you to accept her where she is at and not abandon her in her pain... it is a difficult place to be in...but know that others have gone through this too...and they emerged on the other side stronger than when they were in it... sending good thoughts, prayers and hugs your way...don't stop writing since it tells us how you are doing... peace be to you today, Jewels  
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Apr 11, 2010, 09:12 AM
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You are not alone. i am here with you. Each heals as they are ready. Maybe you can reach out to her and see how you can help and support her now. Sometimes pushing away is telling someone that you are not ready yet. Maybe just letting her know you are all there for her and understand will help her not be so scared and alone. Please take care and know you are healing. Sometimes that hurts along the way.
 BB
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Apr 11, 2010, 10:38 AM
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DPS:
Thank you for writing. What WePow, Jewels and BipolarBear are saying is so right. Understanding and acceptance of Victoria is so important and crying can be healing. Finding safety and protection can also come internally from those parts that know how to do that for you until things can be sorted out. Holding on the best you can is remarkable and very loving to yourself. Please tell all within that there are many that are here for you, reaching out to you to pass on their care and concern and kindness. Sincerely, Hunny
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Apr 11, 2010, 02:19 PM
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Just want you to know you are not alone. ((((((((( dps, victoria, all of you ))))))))
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