Christopher?

Mummy and Daddy told me they had another baby. Before me. I thought I was the oldest. They said they had a little boy and called him Christopher but they gave him away. I didn't understand.
Later they told me they were joking, it was only pretend, it was funny.
I don't understand how it was funny.
Perhaps they want to give me away too.
LC

That sounds very scary and confusing ((((((((((((((LC))))))))))))))) Conflicting messages can really mess with people's heads. I don't know why your Mummy and Daddy said those things. But I do know they dont want to give you away too..... trust me on that!

Bearhugs,
Fuzzy

((((((((((((((Caroline))))))))))))
that wasn't a funny thing at all. i'm sure they don't want to give you away. we won't give you away either. you are a very special girl.
white iris

That really isn't funny LC... and I don't understand why they would think so. But I don't think you'll find anyone here who wants to give you away, just safe hugs.

LC, it wasn't funny, honey. i always tell my children...jokes are meant to be funny, not to hurt.

(((((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))))

kd

Thank you fuzzy.
Sometimes I think they do want to give me away, but maybe if I am really good and make sure they are happy then they willkeep me.
LC

Hi white iris.
Thank you for the reply.
I'm no good at knowing what mummy and daddy want.
I don't feel special but I am glad you won't give me away. You are very kind to me here.
LC

Thank you dragonskin. I like hugs.
LC

Then why did they say it, kd? I don't understand.
LC

I agree not funny. LC...sometimes what some people find humor and joy in...is not funny or joyful to others. It is just the way some people are.

Take care.

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Caroline said:
Mummy and Daddy told me they had another baby. Before me. I thought I was the oldest. They said they had a little boy and called him Christopher but they gave him away. I didn't understand.
Later they told me they were joking, it was only pretend, it was funny.
I don't understand how it was funny.
Perhaps they want to give me away too.
LC

</div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> I am so sorry, for you to have to hear those words and them find out the truth. Maybe you should say to mummy and daddy that saying that wasn't funny at all. I have a half sister. I thought I was the only oldest child but no for real I found out soon, when my dad introduce me to her. For some reason I envy her. But then again I shouldn't? The fact that my dad has another daughter first, really makes me sad. So don't worry be happy.

oh LC, that's not a funny thing at all. how could they even say that was a joke? how horrible. and no one could possibly want to give you away. certainly, as dragonskin said, no one here wants to give you away.

((((((((((((((((LC))))))))))))))))))))

-shadow