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Ciao!!
My name is Stasia,I chose the name loveandhope because that's the name I used on another site.I really do hope this one has more like us who are integrated or at least moderated.The other site was just out of control. People there called me lah lah as a nick,short for my long name choice.I am 41,and I have 4 children.I have been separated for a couple years and am divorcing.We are waiting on finalities. I have some things I am trying to work on.They include an issue with my lover because she is unsure about her identity.I try to tell her that she doesn't have to define herself.She should just be whatever she is.We don't live together and sometimes I wonder if we can make things work.She is really insecure.It's hard.But she is alot younger than me.So I am very very patient. We were(husband and myself) before marriage........Bi-sexual.That trust and intimacy at the high school age is what drew us together.The marriage was abusive.I finally left him a couple years ago,when the kids were old enough and at their prompting really.He was very jealous and controlling. He was bisexual as well and so we were supportive of each other for a long time in that way.That's kind of how we became friends in school because we were very similar.Especially in our sexuality. One of my children has passed and I have three that are living their own lives. Basically,we are dealing with a bit of depression,anxiety,insomnia,eating disorder,and DID. The DID is ok because we are integrated,I guess if there was a main issue it would be agoraphobia.I work out of my home,as an editor for various companies.Prior to that I worked for a title company,doing various things.But I get in a trap of not wanting to leave my apartment. I grew up in 'The valley' a typical valley girl,where there was alot of pressure to be 'designer'.So I was.I now wear all black as a way to rebel I guess.But it is easier to match and keep clean. I should press enter.Then come back after a few side tasks are complete. Thank you for listening. ![]()
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There is only this moment! ![]() Last edited by Loveandhope; Nov 11, 2010 at 06:17 PM. |
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Welcome
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welcome!!!
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Welcome Loveandhope. I hope you find the support you are looking for. Glad you found us.
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Welcome!
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It is a miracle that I have survived thus far and I strive to help others see miracles in every day life.
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((((((((((((((((((lah))))))))))))))))))))))))) I am glad you found us.
was nice chatting with you yesterday. Here is a safe place to be you will like it. tc(((((((((((((lah)))))))))))))) genn ![]() Quote:
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I am new also. Welcome
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