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#1
Dec 31, 2010, 07:54 PM
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we is scared cuz our nee feels like a rock. we had sergury yesterday on our nee and now it feel like it is a rock and that scares us. and we is shaking evrything feels all mixed up like we is gonna break apart. we no like this it scares us help uss we is scared and lost and we no no what to do. big ses we shuld lie down but it hurts and then we get scared cuz our nee feels all wrong. it feels like a rock like it be too big and too rocky. bye we is scared kasva littls
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#2
Dec 31, 2010, 08:24 PM
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Hi littles.
Yes, it does get scary when we have surgery and the body feel different than it should. There are many reasons why your knee may feel this way right now and it is OK. As your knee heals it will start feeling normal again. Sometime after something like knee surgery they give us medicine for the pain. That medicine can change how we feel. It can also make thinking hard and sometimes make the scared worse. It's OK though. Take some deep breaths and see if there is anyway you can comfort or distract yourselves.
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There’s been many a crooked path that has landed me here Tired, broken and wearing rags Wild eyed with fear -Blackmoores Night |
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Dec 31, 2010, 08:38 PM
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I'm sorry you feel so scared. I know it might feel odd to have your knee look and feel different from what you are used to, but I hope you will give it and yourselves some well-deserved rest. It may feel uncomfortable now, but I hope that after some rest it will probably get better. And you deserve to take care of yourselves. I will be thinking of you and hoping you feel better soon.
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Dec 31, 2010, 09:12 PM
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((((( kasvas littles )))))
i KNOW it feels wrong and like a rock...but that is ok...that is how it usually feels after knee surgery...and i know there is going to be pain and it right now is swollen with fluid...that happens too...so let me tell you, what you are feeling is normal...if you can find someone bigger than you inside, you can ask them to help keep you safe until your big is in better shape to keep you all safe herself...if you need to pm, just pm me and I will answer...or leave a message here too...taking the pain meds may feel strange to you also...might leave you with a headache, or tired feeling, or just plain loopy...do your best to lay low, and let the pain meds work, and let the ice/heat soothe the knee so it can get better...sending good thoughts your way... Jewels  
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#5
Dec 31, 2010, 10:20 PM
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hi just and litul wun and yin and all othur lituls. this bees krista. krista bees sad you not filing good. krista give all lituls hug and warm fuzees ok? ges what. krista getid pirit legos for crismas. krista want shar legos wif you. that bees ok rit? hug hug hug best frends. bye. love krista.
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#6
Jan 01, 2011, 11:15 AM
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thank yu peeples..we isnt so scared tuday. cuz yu peeples mad us feel nt as scared. it herts and we is stil a little scared but not so bad tuday...thank yus krista getted piret legos yay! we wnt tu play wen we is bettr. we likd hugs and nise wrds. we not no wi it hurts so much and sumtims our hed feels upside down but =we be okay..byee and thank yus
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#7
Jan 01, 2011, 07:19 PM
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kasva. .... we r so glad u are doing a little better today. We just read your post. Don't know if you will revisit but we are sending you warm thoughts and safe hugs. Every day the knee will get a little better!!!!! Hold on sweeties.. hugs to littles and bigs!!!
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Jan 02, 2011, 11:19 AM
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We're glad you're not as scared today as you used to feel. We hope the weird feeling in your knee will go away as soon as expected.
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"People are afraid of what they might find if they try to analyze themselves too much, but you have to crawl into the wound to discover what your fears are. Once the bleeding starts, the cleansing can begin." - Tori Amos Current DX (December 2019): autism spectrum disorder, unspecified personality disorder Current RX (December 2019): Abilify 30mg, Celexa 40mg, Ativan 1mg PRN |
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#9
Jan 02, 2011, 11:43 AM
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we is scard agen cuz we have a infecsion in our skin.it be scary cuz bigs ses it cn be badder and if it gt badder we hav tu go tu hosptel agen.we no wnt tu di we is scard. thank yus fr tulking tu us
 we mite be ok we is just relly scard we get badder.littl kasvas tht is scared
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#10
Jan 02, 2011, 12:06 PM
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hi to all lituls. this bees krista. krista bees sad you bees scard and you gots infekshun. that bees bad. krista pra you get betur and you not bees scard no more. krista misis best frends. hug hug hug. bye. love. krista.
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#11
Jan 02, 2011, 10:56 PM
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sweet kasvas littles,
when littles inside here be scared, we ask for bonnie, she hold us and put blanket on us and say is ok and sit by bed al nite. she is 'good momy' to us. feel safe. we send bonie to u. from lily somehow to u she cares and want to say she is my heart |
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#12
Jan 03, 2011, 05:54 PM
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sweet kasva,
i hope you are feeling better and your knee is healing. my sweet lily "within" has been pestering me all day. she keeps saying "kasa hurt, kasa hurt". she doesn't understand either about physical pain and it scares the littles. but she means well and loves you. she really does want to send "Bonnie" to you. Bonnie protects all of us with her gentle, caring demeanor and will stay up all night with us when we need her close. if there were any way i could send her to you i would. well, please post how you are doing hon. take care.   (lily) and DA
Last edited by DancingAlone; Jan 03, 2011 at 08:27 PM. |
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#13
Jan 04, 2011, 04:42 PM
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thank yu da!!!we luv lily tu we is a lttl bttr cuz we getted bttr medisin we or nee gt reder now it lok bttr cn yu sy tu lily we is happe tu her her and bg promsd we be ok. we is stll scred we di bt the medisin mit weely mak us bttr. bye bye an we hered frum krstu tu if yu cn tll lily ok? bye yu be nis...kasvas lttls wu is a lttl scrd
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#14
Jan 04, 2011, 08:32 PM
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((((((((Kasva big and littles)))))))
Now a big hug for the ((((((((((littles)))))))))))))))) I am sorry you are feeling afraid, I know you have big adults to take care of your littles. I think everyone in kasva has each others backs. and way to go at posting  !We'll have to have pretend wheelchair games, ok (((kasva))))))  thinking of ya big TIME!  Crew
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#15
Jan 04, 2011, 10:02 PM
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Just stopping by to check on you and ask how the knee is feeling?
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Jan 05, 2011, 12:39 AM
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((((Kasva))))
  hoping for you .gif "Sad Girl") sad for you  feel better soon hope the dr can make it better soon 
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Jan 05, 2011, 07:55 PM
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we is nt scard ane mor cuz we is bttr.we wnt tu thank pepls tht be so nis cuz we wus welle scrd and pepls mad us be a littl bttr for rel. we gts no red no mor and we cn wlk nw and we dd nt di weis happe we nt di
we go tu doktr in 2 dys and he gonnu sy ys yu is all bttrwe wnts tu ply wid krista and lily welle son ok? we sy hi tu lily and krista and we luvs yu by by ..kasvas littls
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Jan 05, 2011, 09:02 PM
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i'm so glad you're getting better now
better is good  and wow that is amazing you can walk again already. you guys have done a great job of letting the body heal  good luck with your next doctor visit, it sure sounds like he'll say you guys are recovering very nicely  you'll be back doing fun things again real soon   in the meantime, keep being careful with the body. if you're stuck in bed, you can always .gif "Boy Music")
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He said that we can email as MUCH as we want (100 times per day). Believe in this - it is challenging fears about being punished. It is okay to be seen. You are not a nuisance. "Too much" simply means exploration, not punishment/withdrawal. Trust in him. Not looking at him is about keeping aspects of self hidden/secret. We know that is not the healthy choice. Keep working on this - you will get there. Accept there are parts. Be kind and gentle with them. Working with parts and feelings is the key to happiness. We have been happy before when listened to them and accepted them and were open to feelings. Write in your journal - it is safe to do so. 
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#19
Jan 06, 2011, 04:53 AM
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ow. cute little ones!!
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#20
Jan 07, 2011, 08:59 PM
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thu doktr sy yu is god and we nt need tu se hm in lng tim. we is happe
!!kasvas littls
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Jan 07, 2011, 10:49 PM
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yay!!!!!
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He said that we can email as MUCH as we want (100 times per day). Believe in this - it is challenging fears about being punished. It is okay to be seen. You are not a nuisance. "Too much" simply means exploration, not punishment/withdrawal. Trust in him. Not looking at him is about keeping aspects of self hidden/secret. We know that is not the healthy choice. Keep working on this - you will get there. Accept there are parts. Be kind and gentle with them. Working with parts and feelings is the key to happiness. We have been happy before when listened to them and accepted them and were open to feelings. Write in your journal - it is safe to do so.
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#22
Jan 08, 2011, 06:20 AM
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Thanks God. Take care and get well soon kasva
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#23
Jan 08, 2011, 07:03 PM
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Kasva,
How are you feeling? We hope you are on the mend and are getting stronger every day. Krista asks about you all often. She worries that her friends Just, Little One and Yin are hurting. I told her that you are taking care of all of them and yourself. Krista wants me to tell Just that she played pirates yesterday and missed having him/her around. I am sorry about not knowing the gender of your littles...anyway I hope you are able to get around soon and that your knee is getting better. Cris from the hotel |
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Jan 08, 2011, 09:47 PM
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tank yus all pepls be so nis.hi krista we is bttr fr rel yu no hv tu worre no mr we sorre we mssd pirts we hop we ply wth yu son.by by just yin littl wun and al us lttls
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#25
Jan 09, 2011, 10:55 PM
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to kasva's dear little ones,
we are so sorry to not reply sooner (working long fill-in hours and tired!!!) but have been keeping up with how you are healing and so happy to hear things are much better! when we read about your healing, dear lily giggled and clasped her little hands together in glee. then there she goes again, off chasing butterflies or something imaginary and fun for her. wel all send all of you our love and many many 
Last edited by DancingAlone; Jan 09, 2011 at 10:59 PM. Reason: add picture |
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