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Jun 04, 2016, 11:44 AM
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Another long term relationship (out of a many attempts) is coming to a close as our partner of 7 miserable years is presently packing and trucking away tomorrow. Everyone made her go.
In a past relationships that actually spanned 4 years in several parts....I was dazed through the first 2 years of it, then came out of it to discover that I was in a trailer, in the woods, in another state, with a girlfriend and her 2 kids...like Scotty beamed me down right there. Instead of running away, I said, "I guess I'll just play along to see what happens next". That didn't really make any sense at the time but now.... We have come to know that we can't have a real relationship and are planning to quit trying....ever again. But that doesn't stop an Other from going rogue and getting us into another messy one, like this last one ending, and the other one, and the other one... It's not fair to us and especially not fair to the other person that we are in relations with. There is absolutely no agreement in preference of characteristics and qualities of the other person we seek to be with. Such as gender, sex, race, likes, dislikes, looks, intelligence, habits, hobbies,.... What one likes an other Other loathes. What one would do an other Other would never do. Its just so confusing. Anyways, we have mixed feelings (like having mixed feelings would be something new) some are upset, some are happy, some disgusted, some sad, some are good riddance, some could careless, and some are jumping for joy- but we are mostly happy about this. Such is the life of this Multiple. 
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 Anonymous32451, likewater, Lost_in_the_woods, Skeezyks, unaluna
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Jun 04, 2016, 03:23 PM
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It sounds like this is a happy / sad type situation for you, AlwaysChanging2. I'm glad that, in sum, you're mostly happy about how things are working out. I send hugs your way with the hope that you will be able to find deep peace within...
 
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Jun 08, 2016, 11:57 AM
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At least the happy parts are distributing relationship killer to the partner lol....
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Jun 13, 2016, 09:05 AM
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(((HUGS)))
Their loss! You are awesome and any one who cant see that is just to f'n basic! Not worth your time or energy AlwysChngng!   
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"The woods are lovely, dark, and deep But I have promises to keep And miles to go before I sleep And miles to go before I sleep" |
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Jun 13, 2016, 09:07 AM
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Dont have a photo editor on this thing so just replaces the "Is" with "WEs"
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"The woods are lovely, dark, and deep But I have promises to keep And miles to go before I sleep And miles to go before I sleep" |
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Jun 13, 2016, 11:21 AM
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((((((hugs))))))
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Jun 13, 2016, 11:54 PM
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My partner totally supports me. You maybe just haven't found the right one yet.
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Be like water making its way through cracks, do not be assertive, but adjust to the object, if nothing within you stays rigid, outward things will disclose themselves. --Bruce Lee |
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Jun 14, 2016, 04:14 PM
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Well, she's been gone...hoorah.
I do miss the van, though. Screw relationships. I'm so done- disgusted. |
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