We've been wondering who should be our host seeing most everyone has one. It's not like anyone is like predominately vested.

Some of us do and a few of us don't see the point.

We thought we would take a system wide vote, but even the dog wants to be host...(jk!)

So we thought about an appointment, but who has the authority to appoint? The meanest?

So, regardless of interests, I think we've decided that hostless is our venue because no one here can function on their own satisfactorily as a singledom. Sad but true.

Back to being our normal

Does there have to be a host?
We dont have one. We just switch all the time

[IB splitting]

Not sure about a ( Host ) however we have a boss ( Lacy )
No one challenges...

I don't know. It sounds kewl. We have a leader, but I don't think it knows what a watch is.

Other than that, we have 25 nominations to be host.

But if you ask me, a host is the one that the parasites thrive upon, which makes that a body thing? Eeeewwww

[Claritytoo]

Originally Posted by Starry_Night

Does there have to be a host?
We dont have one. We just switch all the time

I don't have one either, we just switch all the time. I think the original is in there but she doesn't do anything. She is kind of just in there somewhere.

[TheFuZZieONE]

Alwayschanging2,

Long time no talk! You were one of the first people who messaged me and took me under their wing. Thank you for that. Hope everything is going good for you.

Jen :-)

Originally Posted by TheFuZZieONE

Alwayschanging2,

Long time no talk! You were one of the first people who messaged me and took me under their wing. Thank you for that. Hope everything is going good for you.

Jen :-)

Hi Jen! How you been hun? I hope it's going well. Don't be a stranger!

[Georgia Bridge]

No get host thing. All through day just flow from one age to nother, one slant on reality to nother. Then sometime when stress reduce(often that's when it happens it seems)one or other of littler cries and cries. I used to be grown up... now I little most, public too. We no communicate with chudder no more (me think cuz scared of therapist). We think we will have a different host all together if get better. 25 nominations to be host make Megan laugh.🐌.

[Georgia Bridge]

Maybe it cry when stress increase? Both probly.

Originally Posted by IB splitting

Not sure about a ( Host ) however we have a boss ( Lacy )
No one challenges...

sounds like our natalie.

do we have a host?

well i always thought we did, but....

*ponders the question*

[flockpride]

Are you working in therapy to get parts acquainted and talking with each other? Can they be in the same room yet? For us the host thing has been an organic process, not a conscious choice. Perhaps it has always been that way. There's a public interface sort of thing that allows various competencies to come into it. Under stress, though, the parts become more separate, each with their own issues and triggers. We don't think about a host, but I suppose it's me. Yeah. It's me most of the time now. But way back for those times I cannot remember, years, it couldn't have been me.