Okay, we are like hostless and wanting to integrate. Who gets to be the winner? Like, do we vote on who we want to be like and then everyone goes to them? Or, are the end result is of everyone being mooshed together? That just seems so scary in itself that I wouldn't want to try....like starting transition to see if your lucky or not in the looks department.

I'm confused on that if anybody knows.

[scar12346]

What happened in our system was, when the core disappeared there was no host. We were a mess. But because we started out with 4 me, Waidth and Vladimir kinda took over. We started working in a team and had the best communication skills. Evee just stood on the behind and managed us. And when Cari and Annie came along they were okay with it. So I guess what worked for us is letting the ones who best know out and the others kind off back.

Originally Posted by scar12346

What happened in our system was, when the core disappeared there was no host. We were a mess. But because we started out with 4 me, Waidth and Vladimir kinda took over. We started working in a team and had the best communication skills. Evee just stood on the behind and managed us. And when Cari and Annie came along they were okay with it. So I guess what worked for us is letting the ones who best know out and the others kind off back.

K. We like work on a trigger system, so like no one us actually "the one" out. It's like we are flying down train tracks, at the moment of a thought, an event, or change in our life, the track switches. Sometimes it happens several times in a second, minute....it's like jamming on a reset button....

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Even the need of a higher intelligence or a word in a sentence can cause a switch. It is quite tiring, I can tell you that.

I just read the first paragraph and it reads just fine, but I would not use the word "mooshed" in a sentence let alone at all. Actually, upon further reading, I would not at all write any of it. Some Others are all worried about things that they do not need to worry about. It is too much time consuming.

We will never integrate, no, you can not make me.

[kecanoe]

Originally Posted by AlwaysChanging2

K. We like work on a trigger system, so like no one us actually "the one" out. It's like we are flying down train tracks, at the moment of a thought, an event, or change in our life, the track switches. Sometimes it happens several times in a second, minute....it's like jamming on a reset button....

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Even the need of a higher intelligence or a word in a sentence can cause a switch. It is quite tiring, I can tell you that.

I just read the first paragraph and it reads just fine, but I would not use the word "mooshed" in a sentence let alone at all. Actually, upon further reading, I would not at all write any of it. Some Others are all worried about things that they do not need to worry about. It is too much time consuming.

We will never integrate, no, you can not make me.

You are right, no one can make you integrate. And a decent t will help you get to whatever your goals are. Some folks with DID want to integrate, some want to integrate a few, some just want to be co-conscious. Me, I'm not sure what I want as an end goal. I know that a couple have integrated on their own and that seems to be fine with everybody.

Anything but this.

[Atypical_Disaster]

For us we let each part be themselves, we have no desire to integrate and by letting each of us express ourselves and be who we all individually are we have found peace of mind though of course our life is not perfect(nobody has a perfect life anyways).