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Dec 05, 2016, 04:33 AM
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when someone truly gets it
not, "so is it like this, that, etc", but actually gets it we were called by the system name over the weekend and that surprised us in a good way and made us happy my question: outside of professionals, how many people do you have that, "really get it?" we have the people on this site and we have a couple of people who we email sometimes who understand toyah, who's been in charge of our mental health team for a long long time totally gets it. we love her understanding. it means the world to us so.... your turn |
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Dec 05, 2016, 06:55 AM
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We don't have names as my p'doc thought it would make things worse. It's rare to find anybody who understands and doesn't run away as fast as they can. My p'doc talks to the others but they often don't stay out that long or they switch too quickly. Other professionals in the mental health field are clueless.
I am pleased that you have found some-one who understands and seems to have a grasp on what is real. |
| elevatedsoul, eskielover, ruh roh
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Dec 05, 2016, 09:01 AM
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Nobody knows except for the therapist. It would feel great to be called by name outside of therapy.
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Dec 05, 2016, 10:16 AM
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No one. I've tried to clue my husband in, but I just get this blank look or a funny kind of laugh from him.
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| Anonymous48690, elevatedsoul, ruh roh
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Dec 05, 2016, 08:47 PM
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We still try to stay a hidden system in this male world.....and any recognition would be so devastating. As much as we want or claim freedom....we are still a slave to status quo. Financial security is our bane. |
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Dec 05, 2016, 10:05 PM
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New T gets it. That is quite a big deal, as it has been very difficult to find a T who gets it here. Have been through many to find this one.
Ex T, who is still supportive of us through email. She trust her more than anyone in the world. Have our DID friend, who lives in another country and skypes with us every now and then. We don't really like to be known. |
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Dec 06, 2016, 07:00 AM
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can you expand on that? why would having names make things worse (or in this case, A system name) we're called atlantis, and it's not really a problem beats people talking to who ever it is that's out and calling them by the body's name (emily) just our thoughts |
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