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Old Dec 04, 2016, 06:22 PM
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Our happy go free Chiuahua has terminal malignant aggresive tumors spreading through her body.

This is her last night. The guys are solid, but we gals and littles are torn and crying.

We older fems have to be more solid to maintain. Strong emotions are now arising and we are bouncing all over the rainbow, crying one second but tough another then back to weeping.
A very emotional time for us...but when our son comes home....we need to be strong.
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Old Dec 04, 2016, 07:59 PM
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I'm sorry for your impending loss, AlwaysChanging2. We had to do this as well a few year ago now. And we'll have it to do again a few years hence... hopefully not soon. I send hugs your way with the hope that you might be able to find deep peace within...
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Old Dec 04, 2016, 08:35 PM
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Our happy go free Chiuahua has terminal malignant aggresive tumors spreading through her body.

This is her last night. The guys are solid, but we gals and littles are torn and crying.

We older fems have to be more solid to maintain. Strong emotions are now arising and we are bouncing all over the rainbow, crying one second but tough another then back to weeping.
A very emotional time for us...but when our son comes home....we need to be strong.

I am sorry you dog is ill. It a tough decision to make but you are doing it out of love for your dog. Comfort each other.
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Old Dec 04, 2016, 08:47 PM
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Thanks you all....her suffering has to end. Logic and humanity dictates that. It grows so fast that her skin turns purple and she walks funny. It was only weeks to go bad. The guys will deal with this.

I can't discuss this anymore.
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Old Dec 04, 2016, 09:00 PM
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No reply needed. I just wanted you to know that I hear you and I've been in that place too.

We had a miniature schnauzer, Duffie, and he was having liver failure. We tried to help him, but there was no way.

There are tears in my memory of that then and there are tears for you now. The love that they give always remains in our hearts and in our memories of them.

((( very understanding hug )))
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Old Dec 05, 2016, 11:14 AM
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Yep. I get to put the dog down today. Nothing but a thing. Gotta try to act sensitive to Others and other people's feelings. Going to do after work. Kid is gonna be upset. Yep. It sucks. The inner Others are sad.

Thought I'd say.
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Old Dec 05, 2016, 11:52 AM
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I had to do this back in June. . Sometimes we prolong our pets suffering to ease our own , but , truly , it's our greatest and last gift to them to let them go free.
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Old Dec 05, 2016, 08:09 PM
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Yep. I get to put the dog down today. Nothing but a thing. Gotta try to act sensitive to Others and other people's feelings. Going to do after work. Kid is gonna be upset. Yep. It sucks. The inner Others are sad.

Thought I'd say.
*You* are awesome.
You do the job the others can't do.
You are sensitive enough to know you have to act as if you are sensitive to the others.
They need your help today.
Thanks to you for being able to do the things.
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Old Dec 05, 2016, 08:36 PM
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*You* are awesome.
You do the job the others can't do.
You are sensitive enough to know you have to act as if you are sensitive to the others.
They need your help today.
Thanks to you for being able to do the things.
Its all good. It's over with. Kid and I had hugs. Hes hurt. My littles and fems are freaking....trying to hold them back this late hour.

But the alcohol and the fact that it's their time is melting the resolve. Which is okay.
Thanks for this!
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Old Dec 05, 2016, 10:02 PM
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Thanks to you.

Many hugs to them.
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Old Dec 09, 2016, 02:35 AM
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Up late. Can't go to bed. Thinking of you.

Just wanted you to know you are in my thoughts.

((( hug ))). Really. To kill a pet
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