[genn]

Her name is Lisa 10 yrs old, really sweet and really shy. she was with us all this time but now she awake. She is bringing a lot of memories to Gennoah one alter with a lot of anger. I am not co-conscious and is hard for me to handle the situation.

Lisa is bringing memories to Gennoah and she can't handle them...to the piont gennoah is afecting the system. I am on T but don't know what to do.

any help here I will appreciated

[Stephy]

Its always interesting when you find a new one.

[Luce]

Even if you are not coconscious you can still talk to this new alter. Just talk to her as though she is listening. It doesn't matter if she doesn't reply.
Most alts have a need - perhaps this one has a need to share her stories. It is important to acknowledge the need, but also share your own need (ie, for her to slow down so you can, as a group, really *hear* what she needs to say.)
In my own experience alts get angry and antsy when they feel unheard, disrespected, ignored or invalidated. That is why it is so important to let her know that what she has to say or share *is* important to the rest of you, but the way she is telling it right now is too hard for the rest of the group. See if you can come up with some suggestions as to how she might share her story differently, in a way that the rest of you can tolerate.
It's all about working together. And remember that coconsciousness isn't always two-way... other alts can be much more aware of others within the group than you yourself are, and it is probable that this alt can hear you, even if you have no coconsciousness with her.
Start talking to her as if she can hear you. Get communicating!

[genn]

Luce

you made me realize that is true..she needs me communicating with her, and know her needs. The angry alter that I've been rejecting her for a long time, maybe what she needs is to be listen to. I don't know everything in my life is kind of confusing right now. I really need help

ty
genn

Originally Posted by Luce

Even if you are not coconscious you can still talk to this new alter. Just talk to her as though she is listening. It doesn't matter if she doesn't reply.
Most alts have a need - perhaps this one has a need to share her stories. It is important to acknowledge the need, but also share your own need (ie, for her to slow down so you can, as a group, really *hear* what she needs to say.)
In my own experience alts get angry and antsy when they feel unheard, disrespected, ignored or invalidated. That is why it is so important to let her know that what she has to say or share *is* important to the rest of you, but the way she is telling it right now is too hard for the rest of the group. See if you can come up with some suggestions as to how she might share her story differently, in a way that the rest of you can tolerate.
It's all about working together. And remember that coconsciousness isn't always two-way... other alts can be much more aware of others within the group than you yourself are, and it is probable that this alt can hear you, even if you have no coconsciousness with her.
Start talking to her as if she can hear you. Get communicating!

[Irine]

The more love you give any "alter" the more you get one with it = healing and getting to oneness and whole consciousness.

[genn]

I will try to show Gennoah more love, even though she is not an easy alter and she feds on angriness. she is the one that carry all the memories .

Originally Posted by ladymacabethadmunsen

The more love you give any "alter" the more you get one with it = healing and getting to oneness and whole consciousness.

[(JD)]

Wow she must be a very strong alter to carry that for you. She's needed in your life now still, but in a different capacity. I'm glad she feels safe enough to let you know about her. That's healing.

[4Grace]

Hey my Darlin,

I have missed you Genn.
And now I see you have a new little one that has come forth.
Well honey, you are a wonderful person and with the precious friends
you have here at PC and all their helpful and caring advice you will do
wonderful with her.
And to Little Lisa, ..............Hey Love, my name is 4Grace, and maybe one
day if and when you are ready, we could say hello to each other.

[genn]

yes Jd ..she si really strong and willing to help the system.
tc hun

Originally Posted by (JD)

Wow she must be a very strong alter to carry that for you. She's needed in your life now still, but in a different capacity. I'm glad she feels safe enough to let you know about her. That's healing.

[genn]

((((((((((((Grace hun been a long time)))))))))))))))

ty for your reply hun. yes lisa is a great kid...hope you can know her.

tc love you
gen

Originally Posted by 4Grace

Hey my Darlin,

I have missed you Genn.
And now I see you have a new little one that has come forth.
Well honey, you are a wonderful person and with the precious friends
you have here at PC and all their helpful and caring advice you will do
wonderful with her.
And to Little Lisa, ..............Hey Love, my name is 4Grace, and maybe one
day if and when you are ready, we could say hello to each other.

[Lillyleaf]

((((hugs))))
hang in there. it will work out! there just needs time for her to cope, and then to heal ... hang in there!!!!

[genn]

ty lilly !!!!!!!!!!!!!! I am