I thnk it just consciously dawned on me slash us that pending on the host at present....our personna comes across as gender fluid.

I mean, we femmes got us our job, then the macho guys took over, now it’s our turn because they were starting to go over macho on the job. There is no happy middle.

I hope it’s not obvious...but I know it is - duh.

Do you do the same? Is it noticeable? Does your system care? Adjust? React? Or just plow ahead with head down and eyes forward?

I feel the next few days are going to be very stressful...especially for the guys and some gals. But as a matter of system security....we gotta back off the alpha male a bit. The wolves have been getting growly.

[childofchaos831]

For us, it's the same. Gender presentation depends on who is fronting or who is close to front at the time. We personally don't care and our friends are pretty used to seeing us in a variety of different types of clothing from cargo shorts to dresses, and pigtails or hair down and styled, to a neat and practical bun. As long as you are comfortable and don't worry too much about what other people think, the other people usually will think you are just quirky, from my experience.

Originally Posted by childofchaos831

For us, it's the same. Gender presentation depends on who is fronting or who is close to front at the time. We personally don't care and our friends are pretty used to seeing us in a variety of different types of clothing from cargo shorts to dresses, and pigtails or hair down and styled, to a neat and practical bun. As long as you are comfortable and don't worry too much about what other people think, the other people usually will think you are just quirky, from my experience.

Thanks, that helps more than you know.

[dlantern]

Yea it is noticeable we are fine with it most days then other days it worries us

The male parts have a problem with it since they feel like they have an image to maintain and actually are quite sensitive about it and are shocked and embarrassed if something slips out.

They do a lot of growling and cussing if an inkling of a fem part presents: then a battle for control to subdue us happens.

They finally recently let us be somewhat ourselves at home in private- it took a lifetime but it’s only fair...yes?

Even now there are plenty of restrictions. We can’t any more go out, dress up, put on make up, no pictures, talk to anyone...