How do you deal with alters that want to fight you over what you do? I just want to like do this electrolysis thing and they are being noisy grumpy. Do you tune them out? How?

we used to fiight a LOT. we have learned to take turns with things we want- it helps.

We take turns, but when it’s my turn they shouldn’t be interfering with my time, just saying.

[dlantern]

Patience kindness respect regard it is the only way sometimes. I'd make sure to find safe people don't worry about attachment especially work on the needy ones that are impussive they shouldn't be the ones to always complain what ever is important to you. If it just as simple as an argument started my abuse or disagree but there are ones that are associating to be a little less passive then you need to find the right combinations. The inner workings is a important convo, you do have to complain you do have to keep the complaints so that others know that was done already. The odd man out is the one that gets it last is the one that folks always want to up lift in the end, so old hard to change. In some switches it takes fast talking like being sold in auction to get the point you know society has changed, so you have to work on the power struggle. I show mine everyday yea I know u can't help but share since you daily are working with folks and still gaining new ones. It is important when it shows it shows ain't nothing you can do about. I accept all my complaints and complements because it give me a reason for our mind to at least be talked about in some way. I make sure I accept that it is an illness if that means yea there are moody ones then it is can't help it.

Alters fight over stupid stuff like who gets to be out, what we get to order from Amazon, drinking, what we are wearing, an action, ...