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Default Nov 22, 2018 at 09:05 PM
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I have a situation I can't wrap my head around.

One of the others is in love with someone. And I don't feel the same way about this person, I love them but not like that. I'm also not gay, so that's making this more difficult. They love each other, help each other and are both happy. He hasn't been truly happy in a very long time, so I don't want to come between that. At the same time, it's making me very uncomfortable.

Here's another obstacle: My friend also has alters and it's one of hers that's in love with mine. How we became such good friends is because of our struggles with MI and because we both understand where we have come from. All of them are our friends.

I don't know what to do. Try and stop it (a part of me doubts I can), or just let it continue. Their host is ignoring it because it makes her uncomfortable. But I need to talk to her about this because I'm just as uncomfortable. I don't want to be selfish and take away something that helps both of them. What do I do here?

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