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Default Apr 27, 2022 at 10:53 PM
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Hello I am back, if only for a bit. Kinda missed this place but haven't really had much to say.
I'm so stressed at the moment. Every time I think we have things under control we don't. I'll try to put it simply. It's a struggle to stay fronting, and I don't always care so much, but when specific alters try getting into trouble it's a problem.
Beyond is sometimes a problem and he fronts a bit more than some others, but tonight Damon is the problem. Came from Damon Salvatore of The Vampire Diaries. If you know that then there probably isn't much other explanation needed. I mean I'm not expecting him to go out and hurt someone, but other things maybe. Like he mentioned wanting a drink....I don't drink for personal and religious reasons and I'd really rather none of us drank. To keep it short there's a lot of drama in my family right now due to an uncles alcoholism so I really wouldn't want to add to that. But I also don't think it's very fair to expect all of us to act the same and keep the same values and habits. I'm not really sure how to approach this problem right now.
But ah I guess ranting will have to satisfy that for now.

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Default May 05, 2022 at 11:45 AM
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Hugs. It's so difficult to be constantly trying to compromise/communicate with alters all while keeping the dx secret from most people I applaud you for your efforts and empathize greatly.
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Default May 05, 2022 at 11:47 AM
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Hugs. I can relate. I'm diabetic and it's important I don't eat a lot of carbs and sugar. My kid alters do not understand this at all. I only have sugar free items in the house, but some of the sugar substitutes have a laxative effect. My kids will eat to many no sugar added items and I will get super bad diarrhea. Also, I'm a binge drinker so I don't do alcohol and the teen alters want to party all the time. So far, I work so much that the body is too tired to even party so that's good. I know how frustrating it can be to share a body with others.
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Default Jun 06, 2022 at 10:32 AM
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I'm having a lot of trouble with my system. I need help.

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