a mummy

a daddy

and a grandma and grandpa

a proper family who loves and want to help us

mummy doesn't want to know us

grandma and grandpa are

Possible trigger:

dead

and never met daddy but hear he was a bad man

[Fuzzybear]

It hurts...

Not having a mummy who wants us

or a daddy who is not a bad man.

Grrrrrrrrrrr

Originally Posted by Fuzzybear

It hurts...

Not having a mummy who wants us

or a daddy who is not a bad man.

Grrrrrrrrrrr

and the worst part is..

we can't have a new one. that's who our family are

[Amyjay]

I hear you. There is so much loss that goes with having grown up with relational and developmental trauma. There is so much that never was, and never will be. It hurts.

I also hate that life continually comes up with new ways to show us how much hurt and loss there was and is.

Originally Posted by Amyjay

I hear you. There is so much loss that goes with having grown up with relational and developmental trauma. There is so much that never was, and never will be. It hurts.

I also hate that life continually comes up with new ways to show us how much hurt and loss there was and is.

thanks for that post

yeah that's another good point about life always reminding us

I do wish it was diffrent sometimes

[Fuzzybear]

Originally Posted by Amyjay

I hear you. There is so much loss that goes with having grown up with relational and developmental trauma. There is so much that never was, and never will be. It hurts.

I also hate that life continually comes up with new ways to show us how much hurt and loss there was and is.

Thanks for this post Amyjay. I agree with this.

[rise13eyond]

I'm sorry dear that's rough. Much loves to you dear.

[Fuzzybear]

Long ago, there used to be a lot of people posting in this forum. Petunia and others..

Where the hell did they go? I know the answer to that actually.

[Universal System]

We have a good dad... it's the other one who only stopped her physical abuse after legal intervention. But even then she clearly has no remorse or guilt about what she did, she's literally said that she doesn't believe she ever did anything wrong.

I don't want to share too much detail because I don't know how to do trigger warning tags but she had to of done something wrong or we wouldn't have this condition.

-Acula

[Amyjay]

Originally Posted by Fuzzybear

Long ago, there used to be a lot of people posting in this forum. Petunia and others..

Where the hell did they go? I know the answer to that actually.

Where did they all go? I don't know where they went. Was it because they didn't feel safe or heard here?

[Amyjay]

Originally Posted by Universal System

We have a good dad... it's the other one who only stopped her physical abuse after legal intervention. But even then she clearly has no remorse or guilt about what she did, she's literally said that she doesn't believe she ever did anything wrong.

I don't want to share too much detail because I don't know how to do trigger warning tags but she had to of done something wrong or we wouldn't have this condition.

-Acula

I think you can do a trigger tag by typing

Possible trigger:

[ trigger ] without the spaces and then end it by writing [ / trigger] without the spaces,

and if I did it right then all of the instructions will be in the trigger box!

[Amyjay]

As a system I wish we had a good family who were kind, supportive, caring, happy, joyful, sharing, loving, sober, calm, gentle, respectful and warm.

There really are some families out there who really are like that you know.

Originally Posted by Amyjay

I think you can do a trigger tag by typing

Possible trigger:

[ trigger ] without the spaces and then end it by writing [ / trigger] without the spaces,

and if I did it right then all of the instructions will be in the trigger box!

I was about to post the very same thing

mind reader

[Fuzzybear]

Originally Posted by Amyjay

As a system I wish we had a good family who were kind, supportive, caring, happy, joyful, sharing, loving, sober, calm, gentle, respectful and warm.

There really are some families out there who really are like that you know.

Good post

[Universal System]

Um... hi? I forgot we were even registered on this site. It's a good thing the book mark was still in my web browser and the computer remembered my information because I didn't have a clue what the account was. So weird looking through old posts realizing my alters wrote them and I'm just seeing this for the first time.

Originally Posted by Universal System

Um... hi? I forgot we were even registered on this site. It's a good thing the book mark was still in my web browser and the computer remembered my information because I didn't have a clue what the account was. So weird looking through old posts realizing my alters wrote them and I'm just seeing this for the first time.

it happens, and has to me a few times

welcome back!